My fiance broke up with me. I miss him what do I do?
My fiance has been wanting to marry me for over a year now. He proposed to me and I accepted. In our relationship often times he has a short temper and whenever he gets upset he starts to call me names and he gets really upset and starts talking about how I dont appreciate him enough. about a month ago after a fight we had he broke up with me. I really miss him and I miss taking care of him. but at the same time I feel like this happened for the best because he seems like he would get mad really fast. When he is happy he s great but when he is mad It gets really bad between us.
I dont know what to feel or do.
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Tell him how you feel. It’s better to get things off your chest. Tell him that you miss him a lot. If he accepts, talk to him about his attitude and try to ask him to change. If he gets mad and won’t change for you than he’s just not worth it honey…
its good that you guys are apart right now. he needs to change that part of him because marriage is not going to make it better. talk to him about how his anger makes you feel and i would not go back into a relationship under those circumstances. try counsiling or something. hope you feel better and things work out for you
you find a new one. the one who loves you never makes you cry. until you find him, keep looking!
Let it go!
move on
Well maybe God is trying to tell you to move on with your life. Do yourself a favor and try to spend more time trying to figure out if this guy really deserves you anyway.
Sounds like he was a short tempered little baby. Trust me, this would have gotten so much worse after you were married.
Everyone is disappointed with a breakup. Not so much because you miss the person, but you miss what you HOPED it would be. You’ll find what you are looking for. Just keep looking. And keep your standards high!
You serious don’t sound like you are mature enough to know write from wrong.
Once you seek professional help for yourself you will be able to find a normal relationship.
Sounds like he is an abusive idiot. I’m pretty sure that after five years of in that marriage, you’d be sick of ‘taking care of him’.
Consider yourself lucky to have learned a lesson without having to go through a crappy marriage and divorce. Now go out and find some value in your own life that doesn’t revolve around some selfish a-hole.
Do you want him back?
Have you two sat down and talked together about your breakup?
Breaking up out of anger is sometimes regretted by both parties after the case because you can act impulsive and not really mean what you say.
Best of luck, I hope you two can get back together, if it is right for you at least.
First you are not his momma to take care of him, second he’s not far to become physically aggressive, he’s an abuser and third get over it and give thanks to God you are out of that sick relation.
It happened for the best. You have to move on and someone better will come along.
Time will take care of the problem of missing him. Think about it. Why do you want someone that treats you horrible. He has done you a favor. He DOES NOT love you. Accept that and move on. Spend time with friends and keep busy. You will survive and hopefully if you ever get involved with another abuser you will have gained enough wisdom out of this relationship to recognize it before you get so involved. This guy is mean and has problems. If you return to him I bet he will one day beat you.
In order to love someone you have to respect them and anyone who calls you names does not respect you and therefore does not love you either, and with anger and name calling abuse is just around the corner. You’re well out of it, do not try to get him back it was not meant to be and you may have dodged a bullet.
look on the positive side – you’ve likely escaped a life of temper tantrums, fighting, and name calling- sounds like a win to me!