how far will you go to save your marriage?
are there holds barred in the bedroom. your husband wants to have sex with you and everyone else and in any style, fashion, and form
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When a mate wants to have sex with others and doesn’t appreciate what defiling the matrimonial bed means then it is time to call it a day.
As far as creativity in the bedroom goes that has to be by mutual agreement. Sure, a wife should want to please her mate and vice versa but there ARE limits and if one is feeling uncomfortable then you just don’t do it. It isn’t rocket science. Bodies aren’t intended to be used as objects for self-gratification.
I may be old fashioned but I still believe in the concept of "love" making. There is a difference between "having sex" with someone and "making love" to them. If someone just wants to have sex they don’t need a partner!
yes there are holds barred. If you don’t want to have sex in a specific way and say so, if he continues to force himself on you then it is rape and should be reported as such.
If that is what he wants, then, adios Mr., because it never was a true marriage.
Sex should never be painful or degrading.
One partner should never insist that the other perform an act that s/he he finds painful or dergrading.
I take it that you want a one-man / one-woman relationship. So you must insist on it. There should be no one else in your bedroom, either physically or mentally.
Bringing a third person into the relationship is called adultery, and in some states it IS legal ground for divorce.
Being willing to do anything to SAVE a healthy marriage is not the same thing as giving in to a spouses perversions….
I would draw the line there for sure! Not that I’d end a marriage because of it – but I wouldn’t give in to his sick desires either. THEY might have personal ISSUES that need attention and even professional help ~ I wouldn’t give up my own values, morals or self respect to save anything.
I ain’t willing to do the swinger thing, but I would be willing to try some new shit. I you won’t, the next girl will. : )