Soon to be Fiance Broke Up With Me, wants to reconcile, I met another girl, Is it ok to go on date, READ!!?
My girlfriend(soon to be fiance) , who I loved more than life, of 4 years broke up EXTREMELY COLDLY by email with me a month ago, citing that she needs to find herself and that I need to find myself also. In the last week she has done a complete 180 and now calls me 20 times a days saying that she is sorry for what she did, and was felt like she was having a nervous breakdown at the time and wants to get back together.I took the breakup very hard and couldn’t sleep or eat. Last week I was out with my friends and met a beautiful girl at the lounge we were at.We talked for an hour and made a date for tomorrow night. I honestly love my girlfriend more than anything, but does it hurt to go on one harmless date for drinks?
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Yeah, your "fiance" cheated on you anyways. She couldn’t love you too much if she cold-heartedly dumped you over email. What a tool. String her along. El Joe makes a strong point. Show your ex that you’re in control, and get back together with her without telling her about the other girl, then when she’s wanting to get married, dump her telling her all about the other girl. You’ll feel great, and guilt free. And if your ex-fiance dumps you before you get a chance to laugh at her……oh well, you’ll have backup.
Your attention is peaked with the new girl, but if you really love your girlfriend and really want to be with her, you wouldn’t be so interested in someone else.
go out with her…..you never know maybe she is to be your wife…but sounds like your ex is still looking for herself.
forget the date never choose freind ship or looks over love cancel the date and ask the gf person the fiance and ask her to meet u some wee for dinner and speak with her and have a calm convo and tell her to tell u every thing because u cant marrry some 1 that keeps feelin from u
I think your entitled. Your girlfriend needed her time right?! So just let her know now you need yours to see if reconsiling is the best idea.
You and her were together for 4 years what would make her want to have a nervous breakdown…or be unsure of your relationship??? That’s what you ahve to ask yourself.
Go out on that date before you decide and if you feel she (your girlfriend) really is the only one for you then stay with her.
I see no harm in you trying something out after all she did break up with you.
i agree with k connor…..if you really loved your girlfriend then you wouldnt be so interested in going out with thios other girl…if you think you can take you girlfreind back then do it but dont drag someone else into the picture
the devil you know is always better than the angel you dont know.if the date is tomorrow,you wouldnt want to break the other girl’s heart so tell ur fiance abt that before you go.that way you wldnt hurt anyone.
Well it sounds as though you are finally moving on and it might be a good thing. Why if you love someone so much would you put them through what she put you through go on the date.
Dump this girl, shes needy and desperate. Shell cheat and leave you anyway when she realizes she can have you. keep the new girl and string along the old one for petty sexual favors. that way you get a hotter girlfriend and you get to feel good about yourself.
well..if u still love your fiance then maybe u shouldn’t. marrying someone is a big step and our gf probabaly just got freaked out thinking about it. and u never know how a harmless drink might end up as a disaster…so don’t do that and just forgive your gf and get back with her. good luck!
First, email breakup?…. she has serious problems and you don’t want to be tied up with that baggage…. sounds to me like a fling didn’t work out and your the fall back guy…. hang her up and look for someone who really cares about you.
If she truly hurt you, then move on with your life. No questions asked. If she broke up with you as her fiance’ then imagine what she’ll do next.
Sure be her friend if you want, you can even give her another chance……..to hurt you.