my ex fiance broke up with me about 3 months ago we were together for 6 years and we have a three yr. old?
Sunday, May 16th, 2010 at
he never gave me a straight answer as to why he broke it off but he comes over my house,we talk or text,and we hang out and we do everything we did when we were together and in his eyes i can tell he still loves me….what do i do i still love him
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Um… get back together for the kids sake. Don’t let fucking anything get in the way of making sure that your kid has two parents.
uhhh… (cough-cough) I hope I am not pointing out the obvious here but if he loved you, he would be with you.
he may still love you, you have a bond there in the child, so u and the child always be important to him, but, is he in love with you, and are u looking too hopefully at signs which are not there.
pick up the pieces and get on with your life, just slowly, don’t hold onto a dream that may not come true, make new dreams.
Stop hanging out with him. Show him what it would be like to not have you in his life. Obviously he will always be a part of your life because you have a child with him but if he called off a wedding for no reason then you should not still be allowing him in your life as a friend.
You’ve gone about this all wrong. Throughout your relationship, you gave him everything (including a child!) that you’d normally have in a marriage – except in your case it was without the security of the actual marriage. So why should he have married you? And now, you two are broken up but still doing "everything you did when you were together", all that means is that your ex still gets whatever he wants from you plus he now has the freedom to be with other women as well. You have been selling yourself short from day one. The only thing you can do now is to break off all contact with him (except of course where the child is concerned – but no more hanging out, texting, visiting each other) and find someone new. And when you do, make sure you hold the new person (and yourself!) to a higher standard this time.
well just try to take things slow dont push to get back with him its good that you are getting along and maybe you will be able to work though your problems and everything will work out
move on, if he wants to be with you he will try to get you back, if not you will be in a better place than hanging on to something that may be gone.