Why is it difficult to get out of a broken relationship?
Why is it difficult to get out of a broken relationship and what do one do when you are in love with the unloved?
You love someone and you want her badly but,you discovered she is in love with another person entirely.You find it hard to get out of it and yet, is like she is gone for good and you can’t even start another relationship because one thinks he can’t love again.
What would one do in such situation? I mean you can’t bring yourself to start another relationship because, you feels there is no love again.
How do one work on himself to love again because love is the happiness to every man’s heart.She left after marriage.
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it takes time to heal a broken heart! u r just going to have to find the best way that u can to deal with this and move on. getting over a relationship is like "morning" someone, it’s often referred to as the "death of a relationship!" u can’t turn off ur feelings that easy, ur heart is not like a light-switch that u can turn on and off…it just takes time!
just no easy answer here
I can relate to you brother. But you can’t make someone love you.
i’m a bit confused by your writing.. but if she’s not in love with you there isnt’ much you can do..
so i’d find someone else..
cheer up you’ll find the right girl
you can still love again and find someone who will love you so much than being in forced love. Give yourself a chance to love somebody else and you will discover something about yourself that you can infact live without, but with somebody who will appreciate your love completely. Look elsewhere.
so you were married to the girl of you heart’s beat…
sorry to hear that she stomped on it, spit on it, and left your heart for dead.
i know that its easier said than done, but trust me we’ve all been there. all i can tell you is remember, your heart is still beating, so this means that it can love again. you can be loved again, even better. this ex of yours apparently didnt appreciate you. there is someone out there waiting to love and be loved by you. take some time to reflect maybe on what might have gone wrong in the previous relationship, and try not to replicate it in future relationships. she moved on… you should too..
The only thing u can do is take it one day at a time. Its just like breaking a bad habit. Don’t think in terms of what will or what wont happen. Think about the present only. Don’t worry about the future it will be here soon enough. And don’t think about the past, it will only cause u more pain. You just have to push your self onward, everyday. Keep yourself busy with friends or join some kind of club or association. Anything to keep you busy. Things will get better with time. Best of luck to you
Um, be a man?
Hi !
In my opinion, you were like me before, you thought you love her but you were in love with her.
These are 2 different feelings altogether! Let me explain further.
Of cos we can fall in love over and over again cos the feeling of falling in love with someone or something is totally 100% different from that of loving someone. Loving someone is unconditional, e.g. parents loving their children, and perhaps continue to love someone when they show their ugly traits that you do not like!
Falling in love is instantaneous like when you buy a puppy and first caught its eyes and fall in love with it, that kind of feeling. So I believe throughout a lifetime, we could all possibly fall in love more than once if we heal and choose to love wholeheartedly and genuinuely again.
But loving someone is REAL HARD WORK. It takes courage to love someone unconditionally and you can only give and hope that your love that you give is returned! It takes everyone to learn to love, it’s not easy. It’s not easy for all of us. We are all the same, all wanting to be loved and please love back!
Real True love endures forever whereas the feeling of being in love fades over time.
So I am saying, Mature men will do the same as mature women.
cos
You get what you give and you get what you are looking for!
If you are looking for boys (girls), you get boys (girls).
If you look for mature loving women, you get mature loving women!
I hope my analysis make senses & helps. Cheers.
I believe , Love is what makes the world goes round.
So, seize the chance to say "I love you" to your loved ones today!
It is only as diffcult as you choose to let it be.
You are in control.
plenty of fishes out there.
Don’t tell me you want to spend the rest of your life wasted on pinning for her, a love that didnt begin or was returned.
Please , romance is only a slice of life and if you want it, you gotta work at it.
It’s just like buying a well fitted pair of comfortable shoes.
I rather keep searching and searching for the right fit than to compromise and suffer for it!
Many people are afraid to break away from current (un)happy relationships cos they fear to let go.
Why not let go of the past and be a happy person?
A new beginning will mean new better and happy things!
IT’s all in the mindset !
Choose wisely!
Cheers.