How can i get my ex back?

wat can i tell me ex..for her to come back to me when she still have feelings for me and everything…i love her and i wan her back

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19 Responses to “How can i get my ex back?”

  • Kriso says:


    Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.

    Here are 3 steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:

    Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together

    You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!

    You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.

    But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.

    So don’t ignore someone’s texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
    You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.

    Don’t Be Jealous

    You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can easily be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
    If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.

    Being Flexible Is Very Important

    Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It’s better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.

    These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).

    You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex girlfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:

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    I hope that these tips will be helpful for you.
    Good luck!

  • Anatasha says:

    Ask her out for dinner and tell her then.

  • Nichole says:

    You can’t make someone come back. If she wants to she will.

  • Aaron says:

    Okay, you do NOT want to do that. She will then know that you are craving her and want her. The thing you SHOULD do is to act like you don’t care. Don’t talk to her.Don’t email or call her. Just act like she doesn’t exist anymore. Remember, this is very important. YOU CAN NOT GIVE IN. She will then realize why you are not pursuing you, and she will be the one initiating talk with you.

  • IloveMe. :) says:

    Tell her.

    Look I know things didnt go so well But that doesnt mean i love you.
    All i want is to be with you again blah blah blah blah you know!!


  • Nik says:

    ask her if she still loves you. and try to resolve all your problems/reasons why you broke up in the first place.

  • Sherry S says:

    you have to be especially great to her right now, show her how much you love her then make your move

  • John says:

    Once you split, let it go.

  • The "bad guy" says:

    If you guys recently broke up, then give her some space. Serioulsy Dude, wait about a month before you call her. Meanwhile, go out and have fun. Then she’ll begin to wonder about what you are doing. Hell, she maybe even start calling you to try and get back together.

  • Claudia- c says:

    u can tell her that there is no reason y 2 ppl that love each other shud be apart. show her that u want 2 be with her by asking her 2 go sumwer calming so u guys cn talk, like the park. txt her :)) shows that ur thinkin of her
    if u dont call her or if u ignore her, it will only maker her think that u dont like her anymore.

  • Dhaslim D says:

    Sleep with her friend or better, sleep with her mom, then you can be Her daddy at the same time. That’s how you can get back at your ex. Hope this helps.

  • Ronald says:

    alright if all these answers fail then just call her rude words one thing chicks always loves if being called things like b*tch and hooker they secretly love it!

  • SOML says:

    Aaron’s right, that’s definatly one way to do it. If she still shows no interest in you, after about a month or so, I’d give up with that, maybe try telling her how you feel. Girls like knowing they’re wanted.

  • Brazy SK says:

    My personal opinion on what to do is this; lay all ya cards down on the table and tell her exactly how you feel. But drop hints that you still love her, ya know? Find out for SURE that she still got feelings for you as well, but be careful, because there is always the possibility that you might be imagining that she still cares for you out of wishful thinking.

  • psychedali says:

    well let’s see.. if she still has feelings for you, but you’re broken up…. then i think that means either: a) she’s testing your commitment to her, seeing if you really truly do care.. b) is messing with your head for attention…. or c) maybe you need to reassess some things in your relationship before she’s ready to take you seriously??

    personally i hate how some chicks play mind games it Sucks.

  • proud 2 be black says:

    if u think she loves u still and u love her 2 than what u waiting 4 to call her, and tell her 2 meet u where u guys 1st meet each other and let her know what u feel 4 her.

  • necie says:

    approach her when she is alone, explain to her what happen in the pass and how u feel about her. say something romantic to her that would make her cry tears of joy.

  • largerladybug says:

    If she wants to go back to you, she will. What I don’t understand is: If she has feelings for you and you love her…Why did you break up in the first place? Were you caught cheating on her? Are you an abusive partner? If you simply had a disagreement about something, and your relationship is not bigger than the thing you disagreed about, then just move on with your life. The world is full of single women.

  • rahul says:

    It really is very simple , if u really love her and care for her then just tell her what she means to you, and how important she is for u, i know it is a little difficult with that male ego of ours but true feelings always work. Drop her a mail or a text with something beautiful about her, and then tell her how much you want her back in your life, and how you have missed her all this time. And how crazy u are about her.

    If u do seriously love her that is, if u don’t then follow the other advice about staying away because if you do this without real feelings it is not going to work and if it does it will hurt both of you much more down the line.

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