My fiance broke up with me after a year and 3 months, I love her and still want to be wit her
Ok…im 17 and my fiance was 16, we were in love and we had a long distance relationship, we were in love, we were on and off for a year and 3 months, we thought that if we were together that long and we were madly in love with each other then we might as well get engaged, well me and her have been having alot of troubles, alot of them, everyday were arguing about something stupid and we both know it but we continue to do it, well now she decides that she wants to break up, and thats it the best for us to end it now.
I still love her and want to be with her for the rest of my life but what should i do if she wants to end it and i dont, she told me before that if we have been together for this long then theres no reason for us to break up becuase we were meant for each other and she said hat she was never gonna break up wit me and that was like a couple of weeks ago and now all of a sudden she wants to break up.
Does she still want me? Should i let her go or wat should i do?
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Some young people do tend to change their minds often especially as they get to a point where the world is unfolding at their feet and they realize that new people and new experiences await them.
I’m sorry, but you should definitely let her go. You’ll regret it if you don’t. You shouldn’t cage this bird, and there’s no way that you can make her want to stay. She has to come to that realization herself. Holding on so tightly reflects badly on you and will make her want to leave even more.
Let her go. If she wants to end it, you can’t stop her. She’s probably interested in someone else.
The first line told me everything I needed to know. You were too immature for this level of commitment and she has outgrown it and moved on.
You need to get out with friends and enjoy yourself, plus realize that you have a long life ahead and will meet many girls, so there is bound to be someone you can love when you are more mature and ready for marriage.
I’d say let her go.
First of all, at any age, 1 year and 3 months is not that long to be in a relationship. But at your age, you got together at 15 and 16!
That’s really young, especially to be deciding to get married. I was with the same guy from age 15-18 and we broke up like it was nothing. People change a lot at that age.
Trust me, you will find another girl- excuse me- WOMAN- when you are older who you may want to spend the rest of your life with. But probably not now.
Plus, if she broke it off…..it’s over.
Even if you do decide to get back together, there will be another break up. TRUST me…been there. Done that.
Good luck, you sound like a sweet guy. You’ll find the right one.
sorry
i have no respect what so ever for young people in "love"
none
you do not love her
she does not love you
both of you may be at one point infatuated with each other
but neither of you would have succeeded in marriage if you ever went that route
both of you do not even know what you want out of life
and are no where on the way to getting there
and yet you think you know that she is the one for you for th rest of your life?
what daytime soap opera have you been watching to buy that ?
where is your sense of self respect?
at 17 you have none
when you get into your 20′s and then your 30′s
you be glad you never knocked her up or married her and thus ruin your life and your future
where is your dad in all this?
are you a child of a single mother household?
Don’t think of her as breaking up but think of the relationship that you two had. I question that you want that kind of relationship. I think you want what you think she could have been. Sorry but you cant have that – it’s only a fantasy. Take your time and find someone who will give you a good other half of the relationship, and have a relationship that you both want to be in. You’ll know it when you have it because you both won’t want to out of each others sight.
Marriage should be the last thing on your mind at your age!!! Your heart was broken but will heal again!!! Summer is just around the corner!! Start going out with your friends and when u least expect it someone new will come into your life!!
Firstly, don’t listen to anybody who tries to invalidate your love, because you CAN be in love in your teens. When I was 14 I got together with a guy who was 16, we were together for about the length of time that you guys have been and decided to get married. And I KNOW how deeply you were in love with her, and maybe if you met when you were 25 you would have gotten married. But it didn’t work out, and she knows now that it never will. Even if you did get back together, the damage of breaking up is too great for it to ever be the same. It will hurt like hell for a long time, but if you want a chance to ever be friends you have to back off, let it go, watch the notebook a bunch of times and cry a LOT. Me and that guy, when I was 15, we broke up. For a while I didn’t think it would ever stop hurting, I just wanted it all to end. But you just keep going, and in the end one day you wake up and the pain isn’t the first thing that comes into your mind. You were her first love- don’t make it a negative thing by bugging her now. Try to just leave it as what it was. Two kids who were far too young, but hopelessly in love. Let her go. Trust me, you will fall in love again, in a few years time. And you will be happy again. Just try to put one foot in front of the other and let time do the healing. Just keep living- most of the time, that’s all any of us can do.