Why do some men leave their wife for another woman?
Can anyone please tell me their thoughts of why some men leave their wife for another woman?
Does loyalty mean anything to them?
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Because its an "easy" way out and they think it will solve all their problems… little do they know… ha ha ha…
Afraid not!
because they want a taste of something they haven’t already had..and they think the grass is greener on the other side.
I would just keep both women.
Loyalty means EVERYTHING to me… I have been a Dolphins fan for 37 years
SOME men are just pigs. They might truley love a women but then get that ’7 year itch’. It’s not only men that do this though….
The men probably aren’t satisfied sexually, especially if they have kids together. So, they go out and look for pleasure.
It does to some guys….. I think…. I hope!
sadly no… but there are many reasons most of them seem driven by a lack of comunication
I dont understand people like that. They obviously are selfish and stupid. Unless both parties mutually want out it is irresponsible and selfish to just walk out and help yourself to the nearest piece of a**.
men suck!
no loyalty WHATSOEVER!
Because they never loved them to begin with. It was a relationship based on feelings and lust, and not a two way genuine love for one another.
Some men marry bad women..
Some men are bad men…
Every situation is different. I would not cheat on my wife. I would leave first.
All people have some concept of loyalty, but an absolute, unthinking loyalty can be occasionally as bad as a total lack of it.
If the men no longer feel that they can love or care for their women then remaining "loyal" just doesn’t make sense for either party. There’s a certian point where it’s better to just let go.
Why do some women cheat and/or leave there husband? Some thing…
men is, and will be, just a mistery to women
loyalty only mean something to men if you are loyal to them. and it doesnt mean they feel they should be loyal to you. it means they know you will be there when they get back home from seeing the other woman.
sometimes they are not meant to be.
Foolish, "brainwash by the one eye,(penis)" never loved, money, selfish, wanting someone better to understand his needs!
Loyality does matter to most men. Remember women cheat also and leave their husbands. Quite often the woman was also married.
Thank you! That is same thing I ask myself and even more when i learn that a celebrity of TV’s husband cheated on her with someone uglier. It amazes me because you would think that men want beauty yet this happens and when they have a not pretty girl but good girl they still cheat on her with a worthless, so I really dont know what they want…and dont tell me you have to be good in bed, because I highly doubt that some of this beautiful women are not good in bed… i guess loyalty doesnt mean anything to them unless you are his buddy… =S
who knows.
for 100 different reasons..i once left someone who was insanely jealous. she called me at work 4 or 5 times to make sure i was there and i wasn’t allowed to talk to other people ..it was bad.
thats not too common. and if they do leave their wives, hopefully its because they fell out of love. if thats not the reason, then thats a pretty stupid mistake…
I dont think loyalty is on there mind when they do this it could be a midlife crisis. I also think maybe they have done this before and its just in them. what ever there reasons are it has nothing to do with you it is there problem and they are the only ones that can fix it. So think more of yourself and decide if you can live with something like this maybe seek counceling or another kind of help for you. And if you are dating stay away from men that do this because if they do it once they will do it again and again and again. No sense in being part of that you deserve alot better.
Mine just left me after 10 years together. I confronted him after learning he had been with her for 6 weeks. He said he wanted someone he can do drugs wiith, drink with and have NEW sex with. No, there was no loyality. We raised two children together and survived many ups and downs. He needs something I won’t give him… freedom to do whatever …whenever.
Very complex question. Fact is there are hundreds of reasons. Without some insight on the circumstances you probably won’t get an acurate answer. Just as often women do the same thing.
P.S. The leading cause of divorce is marriage.
They assume the grass is greener on the other side of the fence. They’re usually wrong….
I think you did however answer part of your question. You did say "some"… which means you understand it’s not "all".
With that in mind… whoever you chose that hurt you, was a bad decision… use that knowledge to make yourself stronger, and better. Move on, marry some smart, loyal, rich hunk, make your ex jealous.
Because they are as selfish as the women who leave their husbands for another man.
Loyalty means nothing to the selfish
Probably for the same reasons some women leave their husbands. Their vows don’t mean anything to them.
Well I think its because of several things. Perhaps there unhappy. But even if they are unhappy they should talk about it. But guys arent great when it somes to emotions. Or sometimes they think its the coolest thing in the wotld to do and the wife will love it. Take one guy on Dr.Phil. Wanted his wife and his gf. He said it was an experament. He thought it was ok and saw nothing wrong with it. I guess it all just depends on the guy and the situation.
Sorry your scorned, But women leave men too. Where’s the loyalty there? There is no such thing as loyalty anymore.
Some women do the same things to their husbands for another man (or woman, as the case may be.) The real question is…why would the woman they left their wife for want them in the 1st place, as they’ll soon be left for yet another…or cheated on for years.
Everyone obviously has different circumstances whether they be genuine dissatisfaction at home or a temporary lapse of judgment. For example, maybe their wife isn’t as satisfying or supportive as she used to be. This isn’t an exclusively male thing, either. Women cheat, too, for the same reasons. In fact, I know of more women who have left their husbands for other men for equally ridiculous, and at times cruel, reasons.
Funny that Scott said "Loyalty means EVERYTHING to me… I have been a Dolphins fan for"
Men don’t appreciate what comes easily for them. Read Love Smart by Dr. Phil.
Women somtimes lose their power to men, becuase we are on some silly quest to become a perfect wife. We want a perfect wedding, be a perfct wife, and the rest will follow.
Do you really think men grow up dreaming of getting married? No, they don’t. Think back to how you were when you first met. Where you different? Have you changed? Has he changed? What was he attracted to in the first place? Reinvent yourself.
p.s. I also agree that if he leaves, he is looking for a quick fix, the grass is greener on the other side.
for the same reasons that SOME women leave their husbands for another man….there are many reasons and any one of them are viable.
well you know that some man are not like that but some man just don’t care about what therefore doing they just want to have fun and do it with who ever they felt like.And i think loyalty means noting to them because all man are the same they all want SEX that’s it .
Maybe they’re not getting what they want out of the relationship. Sticking around in a bad relationship for the sake of loyalty is foolish if it leaves you unhappy and resentful.
How old are you?!?!?!?!
Most of the questions you ask are about sex, one of which asks if 12 is too young to have sex!
You need to get your mind out of the gutter and back in school!!!
most men don’t leave their wife for another woman. and if they do then its because the marriage is over in his eyes. its rare for a married man to leave his wife its more of a wake up call for both.
Seems in this society its like easy come /easy go! Its really hard so many woman out there to take them.Its not your fault in most cases .Its infacuation mostly it will subside and he will probly dump her too! U will find a new man too! And Im sure u will be more happy than ever and so glad he did leave.It always happens for good reason ,youll see!
its all about the pu*sy. men SUCK never get married
I think men who leave their partner for someone else are just lacking something in themselves.So they need someone to constantly be excited when they walk in the room really they need to face the fact that no one will stay new so u have to work to keep it interesting…
There are a million reasons why a man would leave their wife for someone else but they all amount to not being happy with their wife. It’s not the wife’s fault, it’s not the husband’s fault.
There are many different types of loyalty. What about being loyal to one’s self? If a man stays with his wife but isn’t happy, is he being loyal to himself? In doing so, is he really being loyal to her?
the grass is not always greener on the other side. when they realize it, its too late and they lost a good woman.
i don’t know the answer to this question but i can tell you that everything happens for a reason . it might be bad at first but then weather a person stays or goes it was suppose to happen. perhaps you married the wrong man