Anyone who has been through a painful breakup?
Anyone who has been through a painful breakup…do you ever end up with an animosity against your ex’s name?
My boyfriend broke up with me…dunno what I did wrong, but that’s a whole different scenario. Anyway, his name is Kyle and often times people would call him K.
I find that every time I run into the letter K by itself or the name Kyle (on the internet or in real life), I just shudder and all these sentiments hit me at once.
Does anyone go through this after a painful break up?
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No
It will fade away, this sensitivity that you have, especially when you find someone better, who will not give you up for no reason.
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!im going through it now….hang in there with me
Break up is hard on ppl no matter if u were serious or not. I think its normal to have some degree of animosity. I think u should find out why he broke up with u. U may need to do some self improvement for next relationship to work out. Its not always ones fault but the others at times. Listen and see what your ex has to say when he broke up with u.
some yes, some no.
dont worry. there is someone for everyone.
it’s a better life ahead of you.
People relate different experiences to different things. I have a friend who really likes me, but I don’t like her back in that way, from her, I only want friendship. Anyway, I think of her whenever I hear "You Belong with Me" by Taylor Swift
Must be because my girlfriend is hot, sexy and great to be around, but not as smart as my friend. On the other hand, my friend is smart, talkative, but not that hot. So, I can relate to this song.
lol here is what you should do… which btw i did too… it works as fast as 1week for me
1. tell yourself you didnt really love him it was just the influence of your peers and because people think he is hot, but you dont think so(you must think this way)
2. throw away everything about him out of the window… but dont prevent yourself to talk to him… you need to talk to him from time to time…
3. just think about yourself as the hottest chick on earth.
4. just think of all the hot guys around you… if you got him begging before you can do it to other guys..
5. just enjoy your life but dont try to find a rebound guy… you will just fall for someone else without knowing …
It is normal for the name or even the beginning letter of the name to disgust you. It reminds you of the painful past, but over the years . . . all that will fade away. At this stage in my life . . . I have no attachments to any names that were related to bad breakups (friendships, relationships, work partners, etc.)