What is the best tip that one could get on saving a marriage?
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FORGIVE, COMPROMISE, UNDERSTANDING, , FAITHFUL AND TRUST. No marriages can survive without all these and no marriages do not go through arguments or fights. Try to avoid these as it can become habitual to argue over petty issues. Learn to compromise and avoid pointing fingers over problems but solve it instead.
Get a good marriage counselor.
Be open to what your spouse has to say to you. Take time to listen to him/her and do not judge them.
Learn to swallow.
Lots of communication and marriage counseling.
You need to figure out.. what the problem is then work on it. Both of you may have to give a bit to make it work, Two hard head people will never get along… Find out what it is, then ask what needs to be done. If one has to give up something, the other must do so too. But nothing like freedom, friends, and spirit. Once you kill a persons inner spirit, there is nothing left of that person. You must remain who you are in life, unless it seriously interferes with the marriage.
Don’t either one of you run home to mama. Stay in your own home.
Put God first! It really does work and remember why you fell in love with each other in the first place. You really didn’t elaborate enough on the question. What exactly going on in your marriage to where it needs saving?
have a sense of humor .
Spend time doing things together. Sometimes people start loosing touch with each other, the wife will spend time with the girls and the men spend time with the boys.They forget that they are not spending much time together. Remember when you first met, you used to do everything together and that is what brought you two so close. It is time to bring that back into your lives.
Change the things you can. Let the rest go.
pray!! talk to a pastor or priest and know that God is in your marriage and you are going to do what ever it takes with Gods help!! plus love is patient love is kind .. it is not selfish. (sometimes you have to try even if the other person isn’t)
To realize that whatever the problems ( except abuse) the two of you made a promise. A promise that only comes when two people have taken the time and energy enough to invest in one another emotionally. That promise was to realize that there will be ups and downs and the ups are always easy but it is the downs you have to weather together to fulfill that promise. See marriage is not an act of convenience……where when things are good then all is right with the universe but when things go bad then grab your coat and get out. Nope marriage is the promise that since you invested in one another for so long that when things do go bad you promise not to give up.
Also as a kind of funny side note. Always remember this in a marriage:
You can be always be right or you can have peace……but you can’t have both.
And I do wish you well!
Put your spouses needs before yours.
Do not do it.
Good communication & never go to bed mad!
Communication and lots of it. If you and your partner don’t talk about what’s important to you or them then there is not much hope. Sometimes it can end up in a fight, but i have found that, if you don’t fight at all then there is a lack of communication. No-one is perfect.
Sometimes people need to make sacrifices as well to make a relationship work, as long as it’s not just one person making all the sacrifices to keep the other happy.
first thing you need to ask your self and be a hundred percent honest with your self about is that do you still love this person and i don’t mean BF love mother our sibling love i mean the one that still makes you a little nervous the know that you argued and screamed but you still want to make dinner for that person listen I know that my parents did not last 30 something years and still going because everything was peachy all the time one thing that a lot of couples forget is that you are two different personality trying to share the same environment and both are thinking this is how its going to get done the big mistake is that its not being communicating neither of you are mind readers communication is the key and a lot of compromising if you give up one thing your partner should do the same if they are unwilling those can be clear sings that that person is not concern about your feelings our needs that can be a grate way for you to rethink the relationship another important thing is that you must take responsibility for your wrongs just like your rights its easy to put blame but to blame your partner for things that maybe you know you did wrong can also add to problems own your behavior and ya sometimes counseling helps but it takes strong people to make a marriage work walking out is very easy whats so sad to me is that many people would kill them selves to clime up the corporate ladder do overtime pick up extra shifts and so on they make such an effort to make the next dollar but they won’t do the same when it comes to their marriage marriage is not about clout money or popularity and unfortunately society has made it about that its about what everyone would like it to be to someday have a partner to love and share life’s burden with good or bad
golden rule still applies to adulthood