Why do men leave their good wifes?
Thursday, May 20th, 2010 at
My friends mom was married 30 years she cooked cleaned did everything for him he just tweezed his eyebrows with a tweezer he left her for a u know ,why! did he leave his family? shes so ugly…
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Men aren’t very bright and can easily be led around by their nether regions.
All you have to do is look at the men in politics to see that they don’t think clearly when a girl is willing. From presidents to your friends dad, they just aren’t stable.
Many of them see this as a last fling, then they find out that they miss the old times and old wife.
Hopefully shes found that life without the need to cook and clean for an ingrate can be more fun than she thought.
Its not the womans fault, the wife doesn’t make her man unfaithful, he chooses that for himself. The biggest fairytale ever told by an unfaithful husband is that its all her fault.
He could have had counseling, he could have not put himself in the position of being alone with a woman, he could have not engaged in inappropriate behavior, he could have kept his zipper up, in short he made some vows too, he has a responsiblity to keep them. And if hes unhappy to work on the marriage. Not to screw around in a desperate attempt to think hes not losing his sexual attraction.
You are not a part of it. You have no idea what is going on, nor is it your concern.
The sex was bad i’m sure..and he doesnt care about the hoebags uglyness as long as shes puttin it out
because they want more sex. It’s as simple as that.
the 80/20 rule:
in a marriage you get 80% of what u want
and the other 20% in from someone else outside the marriage
some men go after that 20%..
Maybe your friend’s mum was a shrew. You know things aren’t always as they seem. They most likely grew apart and it’s a good thing instead of staying together and being miserable.
i doubt that tweezing eyebrows has anything to do with him leaving. only they know what was happening in their relationship.
Yes, true but a guy likes an independent girl and one can can step her foot down. He might have been bored because maybe she was too clingy and he wanted something new than the usual he has to deal with. Hope this helps.
many do
Cooking and cleaning for 30 years for someone…..a maid can do that. A wife needs to be more than a maid. Did she keep him excited? Was he happy to get home everyday….She was no longer able to keep him interested and excited…it happens all the time.
Well Mabey The Ugly Lady Has More In Common With Him And He Probly Is Happy With Her,,,
My father did the same thing. My mother used to say it was probably because she was more slutty. She certainly wasn’t more physically attractive than my mum, an old hag actually!
Maybe he just could stand her anymore like my wife
She is taking care of him in the way his wife forgot or never had. She is so busy doing her wifely duties that she does not give the hug and kiss at all times that is essential to a good relationship
Its funny that you wonder this, & to be honest.. many women do.
But this isn’t any of your business. Its nice to care about her, and be mad for her.. but unless you ask him yourself ; i guess you will never know.
Guys can be surprisingly, or not, VERY stupid. (:
being good doesnt mean he will stay or keep u… every person is an individual only knows why he does what he does. I wonder why some guys dont keep me around knowing I am a decent catch… Some dont know what good they have until they let it go. Some men just dont care and are heartless…
For many many reasons. Some women and men leave their spouses because they no longer want to put the work into it. Some leave because they feel it is lacking something that they might get somewhere else. Some leave because of abuse of all kinds and this includes verbal abuse- treating the other badly and not with respect. Taking their jobs over their spouses, Financial reasons, going thru the change of life and hormones going nuts, too much stress, kids driving them crazy, want a change of scenery and think it will be better this time around, just an overall selfish jerk. Many many more.
I know it hurts when you see your Mom being left behind for someone else. It is not an easy thing to go thru. You want to stay out of it, but find it hard to not take sides and usually kids will take sides with Momma versus the Dad unless the Mom is at complete fault.
I am sorry your Mom was left and your Dad is with someone else.
I don’t know what to say, but to stick by your Mom until she can get thru this and just be polite to your Father. He is still your Father regardless of what mistakes he has made and I am sure it has nothing to do with you.
Ungrateful bastard.
But that doesn’t make women any more innocent,eh? there are bastards and bitches and there gentlemen and ladies.
Faithfulness and loyalty separates the two categories.
@Crystal Flowers : And cheating women are driven by ummmm….love?!!
or by their pussies? please don’t make it as if men are the only beasts around here because if men could be beasts women could be rattle snakes and this category showed a whole lot of them.
same here. he cheated after 23 yrs with a skank, i wasn’t needy or clingy, he was in a different country and the ho was available, they just do it for different sex, i guess. its horrible, he broke my heart.
Because men are ruled by their dicks.
They are driven by lust and they only value a female for the effect she has on their sexual libido.
If a female turns them on, they will leave everything and walk over broken glass to get to her.
You hear about this kind of betrayal all the time. Your friend’s Mom deserves better. I hope she gets it.
Yeah, well women leave their good husbands for jail birds. It’s a 2 way street, honey.
Cheaters frequently trade-down. They’re looking for more "accessible" people. Someone who strokes their ego, makes them feel better about themselves. They hate themselves to begin with. He probably thought his wife was too good for him, and it made him feel worse about himself because he didn’t measure up to her.
wow that is sad… dang i was wondering why my husband of 24 years won’t leave me, he has cheated on me for years, beat me some of those years when he wanted to cheat but didn’t—-and you know what your friends mom will be alot better off without the loser!!! so tell her to to take a deep breath and feel the clean air go though her lungs and thank her lucky stars that she is free!!!!!!! let those two have each other they deserve each other more then you can even know!!!! NOW SHE CAN MEET A REAL MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
because men dont know what they have until its gone, and believe me i know because it happened to me. did all the above for my e then he deicided one day after 26 years he was done.. sometimes people just grow apart and its really no ones fault but that doesnt stop the pain they feel, she need to try and move on with her life, and mark my words he’ll try to come back into the picture, but sometimes its just to late.
Sex…if it ain’t good, he ain’t staying!
You will find that SOME not ALL men think the grass is greener on the other side. When the honey moon is over and they find the grass is worse then what they thought, they end up kicking them self in the a$$ because they left the best thing they ever had and let it go for some tramp!
Well My Parents are soon to be Divorced.
I just think
Men are so selfish for there money.
Men bullshit alot!
They Lie alot.
Sometimes in Relationships, they Abuse you.
I just don’t think people should get married, if,
your man lied you the first time. or bullshit to you the first time.
If he did anything to you wrong the first time.
DO NOT GET MARRIED TO HIM.
Most People today don’t know the meaning of committment . . they have no concept of "for better or for worst" they don’t consider the weight of forever ever ever….
couple that with the fact that many have unrealistic expectations of marriage… so once they enter it… no matter how good the girl is… she could never measure up to the unrealistic expectation….
but that other "ugly" woman can…. in his obviously unreasonable brain…
so he does what he does best and stays in his fantasy world until he decides to leave…. only to be dissapponted again… its a vicious cycle…
and…. he doesn’t try to better himself… as a matter of fact he doesn’t even consider that HE is the problem…
thats not how it works… marriage is two people tryin to make it happen .. if one is faulty and ignorant to that fact… it usually ends in divorce.
Honey, you have absolutely NO idea what their marriage was like, you were not involved in that relationship, you have no real knowledge of what went on between the two of them when they were still together. Everything that you know about it is skewed in favor of your friend’s mother.
That being said, only SOME men leave their "good wives." The only two people who know completely why he left are your friend’s parents, and if they are good parents, they will NOT discuss this with the kids…. it’s not their (or your) business. Hopefully he will retain his relationship with the kids. And "the other woman’s" looks are not an issue, sweetie. Men don’t stay simply because the wife cooks and cleans; men don’t leave simply because another woman is prettier. This tells me that you are very young and don’t yet understand that there are layers of issues in relationships. I hope your friend and her mother get through this time.
I have noticed that a lot of men love to be with b*tches. I don’t understand it myself. But we really don’t know the situation. Maybe he just got selfish and bored. But once the novelty has worn off he will more than likely realize what he’s lost and wish he never left her in the first place. But being someones mother (doing everything for them) and being someones wife are two different things. I take care of my husband but I would never do everything for him. He after all is capable.
sex of course and let me guess…..she is younger than your friend’s mom?