How To Save Your Marriage From Infidelity?
I have been with my wife for almost 13 years and married for almost 2. I currently found out that she has had an affair for the past 6 months with someone she new from her past. The woman she was having an affair with is not gay, and was married go a man when the affair started. She would not leave her husband for my wife, but expects my wife to leave me for her now that her husband has left. My wife has moved out 3 times in the last 5 months, never staying gone longer than a week and always coming home.
As soon as she leaves she starts to text me and call me and tell me how much she loves me and misses me. I know that she has feelings for this other person, strong feelings. But I am not ready to be without her. I love her so much, and want my marriage to work and last and spend the rest of my life with this woman.
She says she loves me, doesn’t want a divorce, cant let me go, and cant stand to imagine me with someone else. But she does not want to let this other girl go. How do I save my marriage and make her realize that I am the one for her?
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First if she cheated once, she’ll cheat again.
Second, You cant MAKE someone realize anything and can’t MAKE a marriage work by yourself–it takes two to make a relationship work.
Get counseling
Move on and find someone that will love you and respect you and the boundaries with the relationship and someone who will be faithful
If she REALLY loved you, she would be trying to work things out and repair the damage she has done. Her actions speak so much louder than her words. She does not love you. She loves the home and the things you provide for her, the way you will take her back when she gets tired of her new toy. You cannot MAKE her do what you want. What you have to decide is when you have finally had enough and are going to start making decisions about what is best for YOU.
Do you really love her or do you love who you thought she was before cheating? You deserve better than this. You don’t want someone who wants someone else. Stand strong and let her go. If she stays would you ever trust her again?
Get her back and get her female lover friend there at your place too. This could work out great for you