My fiance broke up with me. I don't know what to do.?
Me and my girl were together for three years. We did everything together. We lived together for over a year. but we had our hard times too. we were both jealous with each other a lot and that started most of the fights. we broke up a few times before and got back together because we loved each other so much. but wednesday we broke up again and this time she doesn’t want me back. after going through all this, i realize how stupid it was to be so jealous and i know she would never hurt me like that. but she says she loves me but cant take it anymore. i’ve tried doing everything i can to show her i can change. but now she just turns her phone off when i try to talk. i bought her dozens and dozens of flowers, a card, candy and a few things i know she likes, but she still wont see me. and this is all happening so close to our anniversary. and now i just don’t know what to do. i hurt so bad, i feel like ripping my heart out. i dont know what to do. i need help,
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Stop contacting her – right away.
The sooner she starts missing you – the sooner she might consider taking you back.
Go to the bookstore and get some books on jealousy. Purchase them and read them. If you get back together with her – tell her to read them also.
Without hearing her side, all I can say is good luck. I’ll send a prayer up for you guys. If it’s meant to be it will be. But also, I’m sure my ex-boyfriend probably would have said exactly what you just said, but on my side, he treated me like crap, and I thought I deserved better. You can only ask someone to change so many times before it wears on you and you can’t handle it anymore. But anyway, do you regularly buy her stuff when your together? If not, then stop buying her stuff now. Try doing things she might have always wanted you to do that you never wanted to do. (Example: If she always wanted you to spend time with her family, call up one of them and try to hang out with them.) Find out what she needs to feel loved, and try to do it.
she can’t miss you if you never go away…
write her letters – but never send them.
I promise you she’ll contact you soon enough.
and whens he does- maybe give her those letters to prove to her that you didn’t want to stop contacting her but you thought you needed to- and you’re glad you did because she came back.
If she doesn’t- one day you’ll be able to look back at those letters and laugh.
Confidence is sexy. Remember that.
You have a major issue that you need to deal with and until you do deal with it then I don’t think that your ex is ever going to want to take you back. If you were so jealous to the point that your girlfriend broke up with you then I think the best thing for you to do is to get help for that. You should try to get some counseling so you can work that out. If you don’t get the help that you need for this problem then it’s going to be hard for you to find anyone to share your life with. You coming here and asking us for our help is not going to change who you are. You need professional help for this. And if you don’t believe me and you don’t go for the help that you need then you are going to pass the rest of your life hurting because no one wants a jealous partner.
It usually happens in love, try to see and correct the error yourself, and try to read a bit about how to get your ex back, it might help, do not despair in such circumstances because a lot more suffering in their affairs and at all not despair
Move on there are other GF out there for you. I take it you are still young and have a lot of life left to live. Have a really great life.