My fiance broke up with me to sleep with neighbor and then took me back, are they still talking?
I have been with him for over 2 years have a son and another one on the way with him. He admitted to deciding he wanted to sleep with my neighbor who has lived there a year(duplex) a week before he broke up with me blaming break up on me bc he intended to sleep with her and that he said things about me to her to make her feel sorry for him and get in her pants. It took him 1wk b4 he got in her pants. All week he led me to believe he was thinking about things I said and letting me come back while talking to her almost daily. He slept w her at 3 am after they got drunk together and when I came at 11am I saw hickies and confronted him. He let me come back that day. I cant seem to get over that he planned it out and lied and made me feel horrible to sleep with her bc he was curious. What else is he capable of? Could he still be talking to her eventhough he insists he does not? His son told mine that he talks to her when I am gone and I don’t know about but he denied it…how can I tell if she is lying too? I do not wanna be in a triangle!!! He also promised to move but I can’t tell there has been any effort in 3 months. Help!!!
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This guy you are with is a looser, you need to wake up and move on, his past will predict what the future will or might hold for you, with that said….LEAVE HIM!!!!!
I think your making a mistake by taking him back If he can’t be faithful to you before he marries you, he isn’t going to be after he marries. he did plan and plot and is lying to you about talking to her. your deserving of more than a back stabber.
Why are you with him?
Your wording in the question shows that you have given over all of your power and all of the decisions to him. "He let me come back that day" – are you kidding me??????
Get a backbone, take back your power and decision making – then THINK – and dump him!
What is he capable of? A lifetime of misery. He is very selfish and will do whatever gives him pleasure no matter what destruction it causes all around him.
One thing you say stand out to me and that is that "he let you come back", please girl get a life. The next time you want to sleep with his friend break up with him, hell no just sleep with the friends and see if he likes it.
He is a low life! what would you suggest if you read this? You know the answer.
I am sorry, he took you back? YOU did nothing wrong HE is the cheater. He should be on his bare knees thanking you and his lucky stars for letting his sorry cheating ass back into your life. Clearly he is not and you seem to think he did you a favour. Get a grip!
My ex wanted to break up with me to sleep with other women and then possibly take me back a few months later. So he broke up with me and when he told me he was considering taking me back after a few months I laughed so hard. I told him I was not going to go back to him if he were the last man alive.
Ouch, all of a sudden he realise he’d made a mistake and started begging.
What happened to my ex? I don’t know. Probably still sleeping around or licking his wounds.
Never went back Happily married to a great man. I suggest you do the same. Your fiance is a looser and a cheat
are you nuts? he took you back? In my opinion he is not worth apending any more energy on. This is your life and you need to take control of it. If you can forgive him will there ever be trust again? this man has showed no respect for you or himself or your neighbor.
This man is decitful he will not change
You do not want to be in a triangle? What the h*ll? I did not read in this question where it said your home bound without transportation, no job, totally dependent on this fine example of manhood.
Pack your belonging and leave.
Dump the Bastard there are more men out there why put yourself through it all over
no get it right you took him back, let him go and move on if he dropped you just to fool around with the girl next door. then he did not love you. and you are not just a booty call are you? well you are better than that.