My fiance broke up the wedding plans, but we still remain in a relationship?
I have been a serious relationship for 2 years , that has lead my boyfriend to ask me to be his wife, but all after 2 years he says that its better to breakup our engagement actually the relationship. Its very crazy because after talking things out we agree to be boyfriend and girlfriend, he also mention he wanted space, and time apart I feel him sort of distances but I don’t know if his giving me signs of breakup- He tells me he loves me with all his heart and that I am the only girl for him. I am so confuse, everything seem good. I cut some friends I had in my past just to start fresh) meaning not clubbing and etc….) I love this guy and I know his the one for me. I have been there for him, as his been there for me. Should I give him time to think, who knows what? Or should I breakup before he brings it up. Keep in mind he saw me in a lot of pain when he broke up the engagement.
I am 23 and his 24.
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That’s kind of weird. I mean I can see the cold feet thing, but usually they end the relationship or put the actual wedding on hold. Not the engagement. As far as space is concerned, I think guys go through that with any sort of huge change in their life. They all the sudden freak and think they’re missing out on their youth or something. How old are you 2? Maybe it’s just not the right time yet. But you can’t really have your cake and eat it too. Maybe talk to him about what he thinks he’s missing out on in the relationship? Is there something he feels he can’t have while with you? Is there another girl, or does he just want more time with the boys or something? Or maybe he’s just afraid of the financial responsibility of a wedding or something stupid? Either way, he needs to clearly express what he’s looking for. You can still be engaged for years before actually getting married. It’s more about the commitment to marry than anything. And if you’re planning on spending the rest of your lives together, what’s a few years of engagement? Either way, ask him these things to see where he’s really at mentally. Then make your decision to go or stay. Good luck
Hi ,
I agree with Franco. He is not really ready to commit & seems like he’s keeping you hanging on while he is out possibly looking for something else, or as Franco said why bother to get married? Honestly your sort of making it easy for him.
I say Marriage or Nothing for this guy. That way he cant string you along for another 2 years & you can get on with finding a man who deserves you.
Take Care & Peace
Why would he take on all the responsibilities of marriage when he can have all the benefits free?
hey sunshine, i think if a guy asks for a time alone, that’s bad bad sign. It just shows maybe he’s seeing someone else lately or just may be he needs some time to reflect on some of the things he has done in the past. (possibly regrets)
Anyway, I think you need to sit down with him and talk about the direction of this relationship.
Take it from a guy, this dude is either cheating on you or wants to cheat. If he really truly only wants to be with you, there’s no reason I can see that he would want to cancel the engagement.
hey sunshine, i think you need to take the initiative and talk to him about this. And find out wat he is upto, i think you can sort it out.
He needs to be reminded that relationship carries reponsibilties too. It may be a maturity issue as well. He may come around eventually but its hard to tell. I feel for you.
I agree with Hanz. May be he’s still still not ready or he’s seeing someone else.
Wedding is a special day for the two lovers that needs a great attention. Preparations for the wedding is a really important to make it successful and be memorable…
My fiance proposed to me and made a huge deal about the wedding seemed all excited. We got into one bad argument and he is postponing the wedding. I do not think this is fair, he hurt me and I have told him such.
He still wants me to wear my engagement ring and say we are engaged. But, I feel like a fool. My three year old is so attached to him, if we break up its going to feel like a divorce. But, all he does is hide in the bedroom and is plays on his cellphone all night and watch TV.