I am going to a camp with my chuch and my borther's evil ex-girlfriend is going. How should I deal with her?
She is mean, opinionated and very sarcastic. When you say something to her she will debate it with you and start calling you fowl names. She cheated on my brother and I want to cuss and give her a few black eyes. Is it true that she will only think my brother cares about her even more if I act that way? If I ignore her she will grab me by the shirt and start yelling at me for being rude! Please help! I need a way to tell her to stay away from me and not to mess with me. I also want to get acoss how opinionated and mean she is. I really want some revenge! She took my boyfriend! If I talk back to her I will get in trouble because she is a camp leader.
Any tips or advice?! I don’t want her to ruin my time at camp.
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Since it is a Church camp… I will take words from Casting Crowns… "…love her like Jesus…"
The best thing to do is to be nice… I know that is easier said than done, but she probably feels uncomfortable in her own way. The best thing to do is to treat her as if nothing happened… once she displays some "bad trait" then simply confront her bluntly. Tell her that you know there is a past with her and you in some weird way… but that you really dont want to have to have such horrible encounters with her everytime you see her.
If that still doesnt work… see my first suggestion
But there are so many fun possibilities available to get back at those you don’t like in camp! Toilet paper is always fun, as well as filling someone’s tent with shaving cream. I personally like locking the person’s tent from the outside with locks. Then there are all the possibilities that come with fire and campfires, most of them dangerous. C’mon, if you use your imagination, you can make this girl wish she’d never been born. Ha ha.
Church camp? What happened to turn the other cheek?
sounds like you have quite a dilemma there. If she starts treating you badly–go to another camp leader and tell them or go to the person who is over the camp and tell them that she is taking her spite out on you.
If you can’t— just do not act on the inclination to put you fist through her face….because that is not the Christian thing to do Okay????
As it is a church camp:
Proverbs 15:1
A gentle answer turns away wrath,
but a harsh word stirs up anger.
Proverbs 25: 21-22
If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat;
if he is thirsty, give him water to drink.
In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head,
and the LORD will reward you.
If she does do anything really out of order, then tell a superior camp leader. Tell them what problems you’ve had before and see if there is a way that you can avoid being in the same group at camp, depending on how big the camp is.
If she is a camp leader, and is mean to you, you can report her behavior, and they should let her know that she is not to bother you. Harrassment is very serious, especially at a camp. (And a church run one at that!) I’d tell on her butt. Prayer will help too, the Bible says to "Be angry and sin not". Good luck. If this dosn’t help, tell the camp director that you are calling the cops for a restraining order. That should cause some action!