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16 Responses to “how do you get your ex girl friend back if she has a boy friend?”

  • sarah ♥ says:

    Just move on, it’s obviously done between you two.

  • yo says:

    You don’t.

    Move on.

  • lost-in-time says:

    not too sure but, start talking to her a lot. try to make the bf jealous and im sure he will screw it up for you.

  • Emiliiaa♥ says:

    Back off
    there is like a gazillion girls in the world, why pay attention to one out of so many?
    As you can see she moved on, you should too.

  • AnthonyC says:

    i have gotten my ex back just ride it out 4 now and if they have a fight prove to her that u like her

  • Tamara says:

    The most respectful thing to do is to leave her be and wish her happiness.

    The disrespectful thing to do is hound her until she puts a restraining order on you.

  • Her says:

    Tell her how you feel.
    She just might feel the same way
    Depending on how long you’ve been apart
    and how much yall had.

  • Amy (L) says:

    There’s obviously a reason you broke up, there’s no use in trying to be together if it’s not meant to be, move on with your life like she has with hers :) x

  • Colleen says:

    If she has moved on then it’s probably time for you to move on.

  • deisegirl92 says:

    If you really love her don’t move on. My ex boyfriend got me back when I had another boyfriend. Just wait and convince her.

  • Mmkkayy says:

    Ughh I know your feeling. But opposite sexes for me ha. But anyways…

    You can obiously see that she moved on faster than you, and the only thing you can do is move on, but move on with more dignity.

    I dont know if that really made sense, but that might just get her jealous to see that your in a better relationship than her.

    Oh and if they break up be the first one to comfort her.

  • sandar says:

    You need to tell her how you feel and if she stops seeing this other guy than pursue her.

  • Aphr0dite says:

    The very thing that you will do is to let her go already. Move on! Be happy for her..If you see that she is extremely in love with this guy and the guy is treating her like she is his life, well then be happy.. At least when you guys broke up, someone is willing to care of her..You will be the one suffering if you still keep thinking about this matter..God Bless!

  • Sarabara says:

    DO’s
    Try to be friends with her first. Once you are, start hanging out and act as if you totally see her as JUST a friend - most ex-girlfriends still have leftover feelings for their ex’s.

    Be really fun, take her to fun, friendly (not romantic) places like the fair or the mall, etc.

    Be fun, smiley, and everything she would want in a guy. She’ll see what she’s missing out on.

    DON’Ts
    Don’t hit on her, or compliment how she looks (too much, one comment is nice every now and then)
    Don’t talk trash about other guys or her boyfriend
    Don’t buy her anything that a boyfriend would - (like romantic stuff)
    Don’t talk about other girls or how many girls you’re hanging out with
    Don’t touch her too much, only hugs and side nudges, etc
    Take things slow mainly.

    I Hope everything works out!

  • JamesL says:

    Sorry man to hear that. But let me tell you a story to answer that question. Now my ex broke up with me and had a boyfriend like a few days later. Thats not good and it wasnt cool. But the girl i’m dating right now (not official yet) she got a full scholarship to the college that my ex wanted to go to, and they have the same major. She’s looks a bit hotter too. Now tell me is that not an upgrade or what? Dude the only way you going to get your ex off your mind is if u spend money on therapy or find someone else. I hope you can handle it because the thought of her being with another dude hurts. She probably dont care neither just like my ex. Dont do it to yourself. If i say forget about her then i dont expect you to just instantly. Don’t mope around, find some activities to do like video games, exercise, more hours at work or whatever. and like i said only way u can feel better is if some one replace it. Also learn from that relationship

  • Jimi says:

    Hey

    Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.

    Here are great steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:

    Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together

    You should never ask your ex girlfriend to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!

    You’re only shot at getting her back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.

    But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.

    So don’t ignore your ex texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
    You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show her that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.

    Don’t Be Jealous

    You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
    If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.

    Be Flexible

    Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It’s better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.

    These tips were helpful for me to get my ex girlfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get her back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).

    You can learn about the best and most popular guide on how to get your ex girlfriend back that was very helpful for me in this article:

    http://www.squidoo.com/magic-of-making-up-ebook-review

    For other great tips on how to get your ex girlfriend back you can also check this article:

    http://www.squidoo.com/Getting-Back-Together-After-A-Break-Up

    I hope that these tips will be helpful for you.
    Good luck!

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