why dont women show men where there spot is when having sex?
Sunday, May 23rd, 2010 at
why do women leave it up to men to find it, every women is diff and really it takes a long time to find the right spot on each lady! so instead of wasting time and not giving pleasure the right way the first time and then every time after that why not just say my spot is right here!
would that be much more easier and affective?
why do women do this?
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It kind of depends on what you mean…
if you are talking about the g-spot (which is inside the vaginal canal) then the woman has the same issue that men do… each man is different, each penis is different, and only experimenting with angles and thrust will find "the spot"
If you are talking about the clit, then some women don’t even know where it is. As strange and impossible as it may seem, some women don’t masterbate and don’t know "how to orgasm". This kind of woman, who isn’t even comfortable enough to touch herself and give herself pleasure, is unsure of her "spot" herself and even if she knew, she might be too shy to say. And really, how hard is it to find a clit? They are always in the same general area and broad, nearly indirect pressure is usually best for clits anyway.
But really, any woman, however "cold" and unaware of her own pleasure centres will become a ravenous, sex crazed beast when handled correctly… and that means so much foreplay that they are so turned on they actually attack you! haha… it’s possible, trust me. And at that point, she’ll give you all the directions you’ll need.
Perhaps you aren’t listening carefully enough to her moans and subtle clues of shifting hips to notice when she gives you signals? This can be a frustrating problem for women, cuz we know that most men are so insecure about their sexual performance that if we straight up give directions, they will be insulted… and nothing kills "the mood" like a mopey, insecure man.
Strange, rambling answer, but I hope I have helped.
because most women don’t know where their spot is
women like to make it challenging thats why
That sorta breaks the mood. We are not road maps , we are humans that like spontaneity and a little bit excitement . If we have to tell you everything then it is like here is my (part) and there is my (part) and oh over there you can touch that( part) i mean come on , get real.
is it that hard to find it?? lol above me
older women tell you. they’re not into wasting time anymore than you are.
older women rule.
First of all, it’s not on a different spot on each lady. And do we expect you to tell us where your penis is? Figure it out dude. Google female anatomy.
well since im a girl an i do the same thing maybe i can help you out. We do that becouse for one its kinda cute for a guy to try an find ur spot and also becouse guys act the same way sometimes girls dont know what guys like but a guy wont tell the girl so i guess we kinda do it for fun haha
half the fun is in the search. ask them if you’re close.
some women dont know where their spot is. for other is more fun like that. most of the women just find it fun to play around. they like it when you find it urself. like. it makes sex longer bcuz u wanna find it and pleasure them instead of just giving up. hope i helped!
because that would be so freakin awkward nnd because the world just doesnt work that way..they want you to take your time
ahahahaha. its not like ur searching for eldorado
one reason could be because we don’t know exactly where it is ourselves. Another could be we are testing you and trying to get an idea of how many woman you have been with. Not every girls spot is the same place, but its basically in the same area for every woman.
How stupid question!
My girlfriend had a photo of her vagina with a dot indicating the exact spot.
The G spot is in the same place for every woman. Insert the finger like your trying to reach the bellybutton (not too far though, far enough) and go in a "come hither" motion (like your telling someone to come to you with your finger. if you feel kind of a coushony spot then thats it. if she is moaning or what not then you know your doing something right.
good luck.
its too awkward to tell the guy "Hey thats not it!" besides guys need to work a little bit to find it. We’re not gonna just tell you.
Most girls are so insecure with their sexuality they don’t want to talk about it at all. Fortunately some women eventually mature beyond that silliness.
Anyway, if you’re talking about the g-spot, you can learn to recognize it. It’s a little thicker and rougher than the rest of the wall of the vagina, especially when aroused
Because they are worried that they will make you feel stupid if they tell you that you are not doing it right. Then the moment could be ruined. When you go down though, Ill tell you what feels best. Lick the you-know-what(the "cl__" word) side to side, soft and slow and around in circles. Up and down actually hurts a little. It is too sensitive. And dont dig in and start crazy. Warm her up some. tease the heck out of her.. You wont be sorry..hope this is what you were asking, and hope it helps
during oral i stick to the 2nd knuckle rule ‘put your fingers in as far as the 2nd knuckle and move your fingers upwards and feel for an area that has ‘ridges’ this is the g-spot ‘
it works every time
they dont tell you cuz your attitude stinks, if you have no time you better leave women alone altogether and go about your more important business ,honey
If women tell you their secrets, it becomes less appetizing, better to seek to please, that to get the secret and become bored of it. And who is to say if they have a specific position that that one is best. It they already knew the best position to be in why waste time with someone new.
One not so big secret is that sex is not love, and spontaneity leads to better sex. Otherwise sex would be more like a chore.
Is this question for real? That’s like asking why don’t people stare at the gas peddle when there driving so they’ll know exactly how far in the peddle needs to go to reach a certain speed……They don’t do it because staring at it (trying to find it) will cause you to wreck.
The same thing goes for the lady. If your staring at her trying to gauge how far it needs to go in or the right angle to move, your going to ruin it…..ruin it badly
Just enjoy the process, let her guide you. She will let you know when you’ve found something. Besides I think she knows a little bit more about where it is and what it takes……worry less, enjoy more.