About three months ago I lied to my fiance about texting one of my friend’s friend. I wanted to find out where people were going out etc. she was a girl. I didn’t tell her because I was scared she would get mad. Now, she told me that i had to quit drinking, go to therapy, and take medication. I love this woman with all my heart. we been together for 1 1/2 years. I would do anything for her. I have gone to therapy, taken medication for adhd, quit drinking, quit going out. I don’t talk to the "friends" i had when I was going out anymore. We have had some money troubles so i went out and got a second job. She has no job. I take care of everything. She now says, after all this hard work that I have done that she doesn’t want to be with me. She wants to be friends, but she can not promise anything as to working it out. What sucks is I was making so much progress. She also said she doesn’t want to have kids with me because i have 2 from previous and that it wont b special. What do I do?
all I want to say is..Sunji H,,,you are so wrong to even be on yahoo answers…no are no help to anyone.

I also want to say that she says she can’t trust me. Which I accept and I am doing everything i can to rebuild that. She has all my passwords, access to every call on my cell (we are on a family plan), I know she loves me and that I have been good to her. and I also have hurt her..that is why i have done all this work. I just wish she would love me for who I have become…not my past…is there any way to fix it? I am in counseling, maybe if she came with, it would help.

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