Why do men leave after the couple has a baby?
Wednesday, May 26th, 2010 at
This is becoming a trend and the other day I head this guy say he would just like to make a woman pregnant and keep the baby. Do you guys plan to leave after the girl has given birth and the exciement is over.Think about people you know that have children at a young age (over 21 or mature enough to have made the baby knowing exactly what they are doing), are they still together and why do these men go around creating broken homes just coz its cool to have a kid somewhere?
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because they do not want the responsibility, I see them as not Men. if they do not want to be accounted for their own doings and face up to it like a man. so please, never refer to anyone that will run out on a wife and child, as a man. they are not acting as so, so they shale not be called so. I could tell you the word, I call them. but I am not going to say that on here. but the army refers to them as cowards. one that will run, because of fear or not any care for others. lack of respect, one that will only think of themselves. this is what they call a coward. and that is what they are. a real man will always face his own doings if he made a mistake or not. he will still face up to it. not run. if one did this to you, I feel for you. and I am sorry. they should make a law against this.
Unfortunately, most men do not stick around. Usually the baby is an accident, and they are not ready to be fathers. This leads the mother to raise the child alone.
i no enough ppl with babies and many of them are doing it alone! for example my mom raised 5 alone! and our father still doesnt want anything to do with us (21yrs later). some men are just a waste of space! but then again you do have the guys out there that want a family and have one and their life looks to b picture perfect! there are a mixture of them all out there! hopefullly you get a good one!
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a lot of men like me….leave after the pregnancy because the woman believes..she owns the children because she carried them for 9 months…she feels she can call the shots on all the decisions…because she wants u to change over night and pledge undying love to them..because they took advantage and betrayed the trust you had in her when she said she is using contraception….
maybe we leave because the woman thinks she is superwoman…and doesnt need a man…
maybe its because a lot of the single mums out there left alone deserve it…many single mums…like the one i have is the scum of the earth.
i still love my twin boys to bits and im still fighting to spend time with them and be their father….but because iv chosen not to committ to her she is being obstructive ..uncooperative and continuously destroying the bond between me and my kids.
it seems to me that this blog is some pro womens post type thing….but before u all start slaggin off so called cowards like me….better tell all these women searching for sperm doners to get their priorities right.
I think what happens to men like this is they suddenly feel the crunch of what REAL responsibility is about and decide they want to live a life instead of being tied down with a family. I am not saying it is right but it is common. As we know, once that baby arrives, your life changes. You can no longer just do whatever you want, whenever. As the kids get older you re-gail freedom but when they are real young, you have no life. Sad thing that men don’t think about that beforehand. Or then there are men who claim they cannot use condoms. Well tough, their “needs” are not THAT important.