Fiance Broke Up WIth Me And Im PREGNANT?
Me and my fiance were together 2 years and just left Iraq together and moved to his hometown in Washington DC when we got out the military a few months ago. My fiance was the BEST the entire 2 years we were together. He treated me like such a gentleman and was always sweet and when we were in Iraq and found out I was pregnant he went out of his way to make me happy and comfortable all the time. Now we are in DC and I am 8 months…we just started not getting along and arguing all the time to the point that he has moved out and in to his aunts house. He goes with me to some of my appointments and still pays all the bills but he is not there for me emotionally at all anymore. He looks frightened when he touches my belly when its moving and he doesnt like talking about the baby anymore. All he wants to do is go out to parties and pretend like the baby is not on the way. It seems the further along I get the more distant he becomes. I miss him so much and it hurts that he is not here laying with me every night when I left my family all the way in St.Louis to move here and be with him…I have tried talking to him and pouring my heart out how I need him and he just says he needs time and that he will still be here for me. He says he is tired of my flipping out on him but I wouldnt flip out if he was there more. PLEASE HELP
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pouring your heart out and begging for him back will only frighten him away even more. give him a little bit of time, since the two of you were arguing after all. he just needs breathing space i’m sure. once the baby gets here things will probably be better than you can imagine because he’ll have to buckle down and become not just a father but a daddy and can’t play around anymore. just focus on yourself and your baby for now and give it some time.
Lawyer up, honey. He’s responsible for child support now matter how far he goes…
what was the question?
Well, things sometimes change when you get back to the real world. Just because he’s not with you doesn’t mean that he’s not going to be there for his child. You said that he still pays the bills and he’s still around for the most part. I know pregnancy makes people emotional and maybe you’re being a bit emotional about this. He needs time to adjust to being back from Iraq and to the idea of being a father as well. Just think about yourself and your baby for now. You don’t need the stress, it’s not good for your health.