why do women leave nice guys out in the cold?
Friday, May 28th, 2010 at
when will women figure out that bad boys arent relationship material so WTF. explain this to me
"stop generalising
we don;t all leave nice guys out in the cold
just becaus esome chick was a b*tch to you doesn;t mean all women leave nice guys out in the cold
i doubt you’re one of the nice guys considering your question" – wtf? time to change your soggy tampon
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Most women, plain and simple, are just into the "bad boys" and they could care less about the "good guys". Bad boys will do nothing in a relationship, but good guys will offer everything, it’s f**ked up, but I know a majority of women, for no reason at all, will choose a bad boy over a good guy.
Maybe they like going nowhere, who knows?
because "apparently" women like confidence in a man and the nice guy is usually shy and quiet and thats why he doenst get any girls or they ignore him.
we don’t. my bf is super nice and i have not left him.
every girl has different taste. just like every guy does. some guys like nice, quiet reserved girls. and some guys like partying girls who just want to have sex and fun and not have a real relationship.
girls could say the same thing: why do guys always go for the slutty ones!?!?
but that would be ALSO wrong b/c some guys do not.
it’s just a common misconception.
some may not be "relationship material" but somehow some girls are attracted to the attitudes of those kind of guys.
stop generalising
we don;t all leave nice guys out in the cold
just becaus esome chick was a b*tch to you doesn;t mean all women leave nice guys out in the cold
i doubt you’re one of the nice guys considering your question
lolx…. from my opinion….. bad guys are exciting and fun… and unexpected…. while nice guys…. brotherly material….. not all are left in the cold… =D…… but then the girl usually regrets because the bad guy doesnt know how to stop…. but somehow…. they always thought the guy had already "change"….. something like tat…. sorry if tat didnt help
Well, unfortunately enough, we grow accustomed to the jerks and the jack asses. It’s just human nature. We don’t mean to hurt the "nice guys"…but it’s something about those bad boys that just attracts us and draws us in like a moth to a light. You know?
becoz they wanna goo where there is anything hot…u’ll get my point!
"Lol"
goodluk…..
females are ungrateful, self-absorbed and nasty people. They don’t know what they have until they lose it and then they think ‘oh life is so bad’ then move on to another one exactly the same but after a while they get over their stupid ways, give it time they learn after a while.
women like a tuff side to a man but not to tuff. maybe your to nice try to put your food down a bet . it brings out the sexy in a man.
its like this song i heard :girls are attracted to boys who leave them in the end.
Its not something to explain its just what we do. we want what we cant have. which is usually the bad boys
They are stupid women! There are intelligent women out there, but you won’t be likely to find them in bars or clubs. Try looking at : LIBRARIES or SUPERMARKET or LAW LIBRARY at YOUR LOCAL COURTHOUSE !!! Join clubs that interest you & you’ll likely find a like minded woman of intelligence!!! Your local WELCOME WAGON or equivelent org. will have a list of ALL LOCAL CLUBS in your area!!! CHECK IT OUT & BEST of LUCK !!!
not all women are like this…you might be lookin for women in the wrong places.
personally, i love the nice guys, and aren’t that attracted to the bad guys, in my experience they tend to be jerks…but alot of women look to the bad boys for excitment, and think that a nice guy can’t give that to them…
but my guess because these are the women you’ve chosen to focus on, your probably lookin’ for the bad girl…
Oh, you must still be young & naive. Let me explain.
Woman aren’t happy unless their complaining about something. And a woman’s favorite subject to complain about is their boyfriend. A nice guy doesn’t give them any complaining material because he treats her with respect, kindness & consideration. However bad boys treat women like crap giving them plenty of things to complain, b|tch, wine & moan about.
What I’ve learned over the years is that you nice guys need to treat your woman like crap every once in a while so they’ll keep respecting you. Make a date & stand her up, call her a hurtful names or say she’s got fat thighs & a cellulite ridden a$$.
I know, I’m a former nice guy myself.
for me im young and it just the fact that its bad and exciting…. lmao… but my (ex) man is a very nice (sometime overly nice) and were together 4 a long time but he mmoved and i ended it =[[[
It takes most of us a long time to learn that bad boys, although terribly exciting, are too exhausting to keep around for long.
With maturity comes the wisdom that it’s how a man makes us feel overall that counts. Bouts of excitement scattered amongst reams of heartache takes its toll. When a man makes me feel bad more than he makes me feel good, it’s time to move on. But there was a time when the thrills were more important than the big picture.
Just like guys who fall for the stuck up, hardbelly blond who takes advantage of them over the sweet plain chubby girl who would do anything for them. It makes no sense, but it happens every day.
There isnt much to explain, it is just a fact that hardly anything stands out as appealing when you are a nice guy, you dont inspire curiosity or a sense of adventure. Maybe ladies do go for nice guys but thats after they’ve been weathered down by all the adventures and rollercoaster rides they get from bad boys.
I don’t think it’s so much that women leave nice guys out in the cold. The friendly and outgoing guys we date are just jerks in disguise. If nice guys would just be more easy going we’d go for them but the truth is we don’t always notice them because they tend to be shy and stay in the background. In fact, when you start dating someone both people do their best to put their best foot forward. I’m 32 and not once have I thought, "boy I’d love to date a guy that will treat me like crap".
If you are a nice guy then show the world you’re out there – a smart woman will notice and grab you while you’re available while all the others look on in envy.
because they can