My fiance broke up with, he thinks he’s gay?
Okay, so me and my fiance have been dating for 5 years, and engaged for 1 year. We are both dancers, mostly hip hop. We have two children together 2 years old, and 1 year old.
We have been living together for 2 years. Well, we recently broke up and i made him move out. He basically said that he wasn’t happy and that he lost that connection and he thinks he might be gay.
We were supposed to get married next year. I feel at fault because i would go weeks, or even months at a time without giving him some (having sex).
But I’m always tired, taking the care of the kids, cooking and cleaning, and I was in school at the time..working during the day and school at night. While he just played his video games all the time.
Sometimes I just wasn’t in the mood, and other times i felt like “why should i give you some when you don’t what i ask” But anyway, i have no one to talk to about this.
I don’t know if i should believe that this is just a phase and that maybe because he’s a dancer and around gay people all the time ..that he’s just getting feelings of friendship and attraction mixed up.
He’s not used to having close friends, and our gay friends are very friendship and warm hearted and feels good to be around them because they have good spirits.
Should I think that he will come to his senses and come back to me and the kids? Or should I just prepare to move on. I cant do that so easily.
I am too attached to him and i would be lying if I said i didn’t love him. Would I be preparing to marry him next year..if I didn’t love him?!
For Better or worse right?
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Filed under: How To Save A Marriage
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