Ex-girlfriend is trying to feminize me?
‘m afraid that my ex-girlfriend is trying to get some sort of revenge on me. I mean, I don’t completely blame her, but I’d rather find a way to get out of this situation. Here’s the back story:
I was kind of a jerk for a long time to my ex-girlfriend. I repeatedly cheated on her, treated her like crap and when I broke up with her I told her to just go get a life and leave me alone for now on.
So yeah, maybe I’m kind of a dick, so what? That’s life, you know? I’m a little sexist against women, but anyone who isn’t sexist is just fooling themselves. So last week she called me up telling me about certain pictures she has of me. I don’t want to talk about what are on those pictures since its really embarrassing and there’s no point in anyone knowing. But the point is that she is trying to use those pictures as blackmail to get me to do whatever she wants. What you all need to understand is that if the people at my work see those pictures I am completely out of a job (since what I’m doing in those photos are kind of illegal… it really is a long story). She’s friends with a couple of the guys I work with, so that really scares me.
So I agreed to come over to her place a couple of nights ago, figuring that whatever she wanted me to do so that she could get even, it couldn’t be that bad. What she had me do kind of freaked me out though.
She wanted me to put on one of her old costumes, which happened to be this sort of slutty Alice In Wonderland outfit and model it for her. I was completely shocked at how completely weird that request is and I refused at first, but then she showed me proof that she had some of those photos digitally backed up online. So I went ahead and put on the costume, pretending it was funny instead of just freaking me out. She also put full makeup on my face and had me wear hosiery and a wig. After having me do some pretty weird stuff like dancing, singing and acting stuff out for her, she eventually let me change back into my clothes and go home.
So up until last night I was kind of relieved that she had finally had her revenge and we were totally even. But she called me again last night to tell me that she wants me to come over next Saturday to do similar things with one of her friends there.
I couldn’t sleep at all last night and I’m really stressed out about this. I don’t want to have to keep going over there so that she can get her kicks out of dressing me up like a girl, but there’s no way in hell that I can let her show those pictures to anyone, especially not my coworkers. I’ve thought about taking legal action or something, but I’m really worried about the fact that what I’m doing in those pictures is illegal. A part of me thinks maybe it might be worth it to just let her do this for a while and hope that she’ll get bored of it or just let it go.
Her revenge is retarded anyway, since I don’t feel any worse about all of the things I did to her. In fact, I’m more glad that I caused her all that pain now. Sure, she was innocent in the situation before and it does make me kind of a bad guy for doing it, but she’s not the innocent one in the situation now.
So what should I do? Is there a way to keep her from doing this, or should I just let it happen and hope that she’ll get bored?
Help!
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U sure that she isnt filming you while u r dressed up with the slutty outfit?
Dude, I’m sorry but you really have to shorten your details up. Try to keep it about 4 sentences at most, or you won’t get many answers.
Oh my goodness, yet another BF/GF question in the marriage/divorce category. The question links must not be working. Sorry.
if shes blackmailing u she cant illegal if she puts them on myspace you could file a law suite and she culd b charged for child pornography if she puts them on her phone and shows someone them at school smash that fucking phone lol
i hope you get fired you big fat idiot
Oy.
well that’s messed up bro. who cares if you we’re doing illegal ish.
if u dont want to do it then dont….. who freeking cares about pics.. you’ll eventually live it down and it seems as if secretly you like being dominated and "Dressing up"……. whatever floats your boat.
there is no way out.
there is no help.
if she gets bored she’ll just let the photos loose because how u treated her.
there’s nothing you can do but go along with it, that’s the beauty of blackmail.
theres a chance she mite be getting a rise out of embarassing you then will show the pictures around anyhow.
Not only did you post in the wrong section, but you’re a total douche.
You cheated on her and treated her like crap, so what do you expect? You deserve this. I hope she makes you into the girliest girl possible. Seems like a suiting punishment for someone like you. Have fun being ms. alice in wonderland for a while, asshole!
you’re screwed.
LMAO! ROFL! You deserve what you get asshole
She has a video camera set up some where, look out youtub!!
Wow your ex is insane. No literally thats not in any way right. Thats REALLY creepy.
Anyway your kind of in a pickle because if these photos are illegal…then theres not much you can do.
However, be a man and don’t give in. Don’t subject yourself to this nonsense. I think what might calm her down is a little closure.
AKA: you telling her (in person) how sorry you are about the way things happened and ended. Tell her that she needs to move on because you have…and if she won’t then thats just really pathetic.
Girls tend to have a very soft side. You dated her…so find it.
But don’t become her "model" or whatever. Keep your dignity and maybe she’ll have some integrity to stop being a freak of nature.
Sorry…you may have no other choice than to just let her release the photos. Lesson learned: don’t do illegal things and don’t cheat on a deranged psychopath.
P.S. GROW A PAIR AND GET A RESTRAINING ORDER!!!
oh ok (clears throat) now that im up off the floor(from lmao)… i might can give a proper answer to this question.
you did her wrong. you don’t deserve any better of a woman.
when will men learn?
hahaha. boring. entirely too long and you really need to punch up the sex angle.
Theres not a whole lot legally you can do here due to proofiing malicious intent. Now you can tell her that youve talken to a legal personel who says enough is enough and that if she does something with the picture and continues with the extortion (threat to show if you dont do her wishes) that a legal charge of extortion, slander, defamation of character, libel could and can be filed against her so you are to no longer to participate in her little games and to seize all contact with her. You do not need to tell her any details or anymore than that here. This should just about end all this for you. Good luck
That’s funny shit. I’m sure not to you, but damn shit like that just makes me crack up. I’d say do whatever ya like you’re fucked either way. I dunno but if I believe in Karma really, but shit like this could almost be used to support it. Haha sucks to be you. LMFAO but seriously though I can’t advise you to do anything, all your options suck. Either be her bitch or try to go the legal route, which good luck doing that if the pictures in question are actually illegal. Lol good luck in whatever way you choose to take it in the ass.
Both of you need to start acting like adults. She needs to stop using you as her living Ken doll. You need to treat women like humans and not just as sex machines.
Neither of you is caring for the person, you are only caring for the body. She’s playing on your paranoia, regarding the pictures.
Talk to each other like adults and try to solve this dilemma sensibly, not stupidly like dressing up in women’s costumes. She (and you) need to grow up.
In the future, don’t have potentially embarrassing pictures taken of you. You never know where they’ll end up.