My ex-girlfriend is insane, what should I do!?
I’m afraid that my ex-girlfriend is trying to get some sort of revenge on me. I mean, I don’t completely blame her, but I’d rather find a way to get out of this situation. Here’s the backstory:
I was kind of a jerk for a long time to my ex-girlfriend. I repeatedly cheated on her, treated her like crap and when I broke up with her I told her to just go get a life and leave me alone for now on.
So yeah, maybe I’m kind of a dick, so what? That’s life, you know? But last week she called me up telling me about certain pictures she has of me. I don’t want to talk about what are on those pictures since its really embarrassing and there’s no point in anyone knowing. But the point is that she is trying to use those pictures as blackmail to get me to do whatever she wants. What you all need to understand is that if the people at my work see those pictures I am completely out of a job (since what I’m doing in those photos are kind of illegal… it really is a long story). She’s friends with a couple of the guys I work with, so that really scares me.
So I agreed to come over to her place a couple of nights ago, figuring that whatever she wanted me to do so that she could get even, it couldn’t be that bad. What she had me do kind of freaked me out though.
She wanted me to put on one of her old costumes, which happened to be this sort of slutty Alice In Wonderland outfit and model it for her. I was completely shocked at how completely weird that request is and I refused at first, but then she showed me proof that she had some of those photos digitally backed up online. So I went ahead and put on the costume, pretending it was funny instead of just freaking me out. She also put full makeup on my face and had me wear hosiery and a wig. After having me do some pretty weird stuff like dancing, singing and acting stuff out for her, she eventually let me change back into my clothes and go home.
So up until last night I was kind of relieved that she had finally had her revenge and we were totally even. But she called me again last night to tell me that she wants me to come over next Saturday to do similar things with one of her friends there.
I couldn’t sleep at all last night and I’m really stressed out about this. I don’t want to have to keep going over there so that she can get her kicks out of dressing me up like a girl, but there’s no way in hell that I can let her show those pictures to anyone, especially not my coworkers. I’ve thought about taking legal action or something, but I’m really worried about the fact that what I’m doing in those pictures is illegal. A part of me thinks maybe it might be worth it to just let her do this for a while and hope that she’ll get bored of it or just let it go.
Her revenge is retarded anyway, since I don’t feel any worse about all of the things I did to her. In fact, I’m more glad that I caused her all that pain now. Sure, she was innocent in the situation before and it does make me kind of a bad guy for doing it, but she’s not the innocent one in the situation now.
So what should I do? Is there a way to keep her from doing this, or should I just let it happen and hope that she’ll get bored?
Help!
*edit*
Like I said, I don’t regret anything I did to her, so you can call me an ass if you want but your probably just as crazy as she is.
If you realized how embarrassing the whole night was, you might change your mind. It wasn’t just because I looked and felt ridiculous, it was because I looked a little too much like an actual girl with all of that on. Any guy in here would be able to understand how messed up it is to feel like your masculinity is being stolen away from you. Sorry if you chicks can’t understand.
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well your an ass and i dont even want to help you. and if i were her i would put a hidden camara somewhere while you were dressed up in a kinky halloween outfit w/makeup on and such and put the film on youtube!!!!
lol
So yeah, maybe she’s kind of insane, so what? That’s life, you know?
During the 18th century, the French and the British introduced humane treatment of the clinically insane, though the criteria for diagnosis and placement in an asylum were considerably looser than today, often including such conditions as Speech disorder [speech impediments], epilepsy and depression.
You’re a dick. It’s your fault for having pictures of you doing stuff illegal. It’s your fault for cheating on her, treating her like crap and generally being a douche.
I hope she makes you into the girliest girl possible full time.I hope she makes it so that you can never look in the mirror and see a man ever again. Since you like to abuse women so much, maybe you should just be one for a while.
That’s my advise. Good luck, ya douche.
Wow, that is one sticky situation. If you cheated on her repeatedly, most likely she is really REALLY mad at you (I would be) and wants serious revenge. But… She has the wrong idea of revenge. Lol
I have absolutely no idea what I would do if I were you, but if blackmailing is higher up on the list than whatever illegal stuff was in the pictures, then tell your lawyer or whoever you can.
just talk to her and tell her you’re sorry for what u did…and if she still doesnt accept then tell her she can do whatever she wants with the pic and you will call your lawyer and she can get hers….that should scare her a lil….then let her be.
dont do that in front of her friend….they are just trying to make you look like a fool.
honestly, you hurt her and you think it happens?…blackmailing happens alot too..so dont stress..its no biggy!
Its not really blackmail, because theres no extortion involved. She sounds unstable enough to show those pics to her friends you work with anyway, and unless you work in the government nothing you do outside of work on your own time should impact your performance at work, nor should it get you fired. She is however harassing you, and maybe even slandering you to other people already. You could mention casually that the girl your coworkers know is stalking/harassing you, and just leave it at that. You should refuse to go over to her house anymore, otherwise she will just take pictures again and you will have pics of you doing not only illegal but also embarassing things. Chances are her friends know she’s psycho already and will steer clear of her. And nobody you work with should say anything to you, otherwise you can go to HR and claim they are harassing you based on information about your personal life.
She’s got your balls in a vice all right!
I would go over there, and talk to her about an arrangement that would get you off the hook with those pictures. Something that doesn’t require you to do creepy things whenever she feels like it.
Then again, you can NEVER be sure that she has deleted the pictures. She probably has them backed up in many places, so she’ll always be able to get to them.
Get a lawyer, and have her sign a written contract that she’ll never publicize the pics. If she violates that, I really don’t think what you’re doing in the pics will be relevant, because you’re not the one on trial.
Oh and you are a dick. And maybe you deserve to dress up lice alice a few more times. She’s not crazy, she’s just very crafty. Be careful that she’s not video taping you during this, because it could just be a device to embarrass you further. Hell, I would do it! I’d rather put a creepy vid of my dirty rotten ex up on myspace than put him out of a job.
OMG – the more you perform for her the more dirt she is gathering on you – you are digging yourself a really big hole. She’s really loving this and she aint gonna get bored in a hurry. As for you – only you know how bad those pics are and the degree of trouble you could get into – so you are gonna have to decide what you need to do to stop her from ruining your job, your reputation and your life – although it sounds as though you are doing a pretty good job all on your own anyway. Good Luck.
Hahaha. Sorry, but I think this is your karma for cheating on her.
That does suck. Hopefully she’s just messing with you and won’t do anything, there’s really nothing you can do.. >.<
Good for her, you sound like a creep! You shouldn’t have been doing illegal things in the first place and to let someone film it, sounds like your getting what you deserve!
THAT’S LIFE YOU KNOW!
First, eliminate the word "retarded" from your vocabulary….using it is as bad as using the N word….it hurts the feelings of people who have this disability and you should be ashamed for not knowing this…
That said…. As I read your question, I kept thinking how in the world does one get out of a situation as bad as the one you are in. My heart aches for you that you are having to deal with something so awful….
The fact is that people like her are capable of any sort of meanness and spite….she is well on her way to proving the reality of things like the woman in the movie Fatal Attraction.
The awful truth of your situation is that sometimes, there are simply times in one’s life where one has got to change cities to leave a shambles like that. It isn’t fair, it isn’t right, but it sometimes becomes your only choice.
I mean, all of it will come out if you stay in town…. and your life will be ruined anyway…
I think better to leave on your own than to have all that come out ….at least right now you have some decent personal and job recommendations…..which you might not have if you wait.
If you move far enough, it is doubtful she will follow you to your new destination.
Will keep you in my prayers as you find your way out of this terrible mess…
Get a hacker into her accounts and steal any other copies from her place next time she calls you over. If she is that self-absorbed and thinks she is the first person to ever be cheated on and she must get revenge, so be it. She can show everyone how bitter and unhappy she is still trying to get to you.
Ok now lets see… you cheated on her. You did illegal things. You treated her like crap. You made her cry herself to sleep each night. You broke up with her.
Now lets look at what she’s doing. She’s dressing you up like a girl and you’re letting her.
YOU TREATED HER LIKE CRAP, GOOD FOR HER TO HAVE HER REVENGE. I CANT BELIEVE YOU CHEATED ON HER YOU JERK! GET A LIFE! I HOPE SHE TURNS YOU INTO THE UGLIEST GIRL POSSIBLE. HAVE A NICE LIFE WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND. I’M ROOTIN’ FOR HER ALL THE WAY!
You are going to have to comply with her wishes for now. But she might stop if you make a honest apology. Tell her about how bad you feel about treating her that way, that you know it was a really dick move on your part, and that you take back all the nasty things you said to her when you broke up. If she has any decency left she will return the favor by quitting her blackmailing scheme.
wooow man! i dont know what to tell u! where are u from? :O
haha
anyway point is…. u hurt her…real bad….and some people just cant forgive u know… so apologise…talk it out…try being juss friends wth her…but shes cool man..or maybe insane idk which :O
Let it happen. There’s probably less than a 50% chance that she’ll do anything with those pictures. If she does then maybe you can figure a way to downplay a lot of what’s going on in them. If these are porno pictures then you should tell her that you have a lawyer friend who says that she could be prosecuted for releasing them
If you are willing to be worried about this for the rest of your life then do what she says. If not then stand up and tell her that you have had enough and that if any of those photos get out she can expect the ultimate revenge. Leave it at that.
call her bluff.
Ohhh, so these pictures I found online must be of you then?
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1147/1474509170_939ce75f41.jpg
LMAO
Good luck being her girlfriend for the rest of your life, Alice
I’ve got to agree with the other posters, this is just good ol’ karma.
Hi Alice,
I have to agree with some of the other people on here that I really don’t want to help you. Sounds like having to dress up like a girl is a pretty fitting punishment for someone like you.
To be honest, I would have done way worse if I were in your ex-girlfriend’s shoes. Looks like you’re just going to have to be Alice for a while LOL
I think you just really hurt her with what you did and I think that she knows you dont care.. so she’s going to extremes to get her point across that it’s not okay to walk all over her .Maybe you should try telling her that you are sorry you hurt her and you realize your an asshole and then ask her to just let it go. Apologies can go a long way.
easy man .. if i where u i would play her game
and try to catch her with embarrassing photos .. or go dirty and place some illegal stuff at her place.. and warn her if she threats u ,she should pay.. .. ;D i would give u a great plan if we could go on private…
i think ur an asshole .. but u don’t deserve this
I think you’re lucky,as there are much worse things she could do to you,you sound like a real wanker!!! Think you should be left to stew in the mess you have created…..wish I had your puppetmasters e-mail, would love to inspire her…hope you learn a lesson from this, other than self preservation..
Look bro its easy, she is harrasing. Tell her you wont take part of that shit no more. No one in life is perfect and all these lil good girls on here talking about you deserve this and that… please you chicks cheat all the time too. matter of fact studies show women generally cheat 23% more than men.
Tell her shes harrasing you and you will have your lawyer all over her house and family if she keeps cunting around.
or you could be like me and go over, dress up like alice and still be ballsy enough to flirt with this friend of hers IN FRONT OF HER FACE. chances are the friend will think your pretty ignorant and arrogant AND LIKE YOU!! lol yes women are that psycho in the head!
AHAHA serves you right for being a jackass -_-. Have fun <3