Why do men leave a good woman for one that is no good?
I was always good to my ex. Gave him anything he asked for, never cheated on him, and gave him two beautiful girls.
Yet, he cheated on me with a girl that has three kids with three different men. Her husband left her because he caught her cheating with another man during their daughters birthday party.
She has slept with my ex cousin and brother, and now he is living with her.
Why would a man leave a woman that has been there for him through thick and thin, that he swears he loves and wants to be with, only to be with a woman that is no good and never will be.
I don’t want him back and wouldn’t take him back, that is not the issue, I just want someone that can explain to me what is running through his head.
He lives with this girl but everyday calls and texts (which I ignore) saying how much he loves me and wants me back.
Why are men suck a**holes?
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Sometimes in situations like these you have to look at it in a more positive way…take for instance maybe your ex wanted someone who maybe he can degrade, someone who’s probably just as insecure as maybe he is, maybe someone who is weak to kinda boost him up. Maybe you’re too strong for him, and I have to commend you on not replying back to his messages I know it’s hard for you especially if you still have feelings for him but you gotta stay strong for yourself but most importantly for you kids. Let him see what he’s missing out on, which is alot. And don’t worry because 9 times out of 10 this girl will do to him what she’s known to do!
variety
The sex is better?
yes , this can be true in some cases and then they wonder why good women find the courage to leave them just to find somebody better and bigger than them in bed .OH thats life JERKS LIKE THAT DESERVE what they got coming
…because they don’t know when they have a good thing until they loose it. So…until then, they think the grass is greener on the other side. THEN reality sets in….and they come crawling back like the slime that they are.
You may have been giving him what you thought he needed emotionally, but not what he actually needed. Everyone has emotional needs and obviously if he’s not there he’s not getting his met there.
Sorry, but you asked.
Not all of us are that way. I can’t speak for him because I do not practice his morals.
so i had a nice reliable 4 door sedan.
one day, i traded it in for exciting 2 seater convertible sports car, that broke down all the time.
after costing me an arm and leg for some of the parts that weren’t covered under warranty, i sold it and got my reliable boring 4door sedan back.
you’re the reliable boring 4door sedan.
hell be back
Im up for a good women.All I get is the pretty crazy ones LOL!
Im here if u need me!
Not all men are a**holes. I wish all women would realize this. Some of us have found good ones, you just have to believe they’re there instead of assuming they are all bad. Sounds like you just got one of the ‘no good’ men. Just like the woman he’s with.
I have the same question like you. My husband (soon to be ex) fell in love with a married woman who has 4 kids. They started this affair while they were working in a Gulf country away from their families. He calls me a ‘bad woman’ but I don’t know how can he think that woman is good when she is sleeping with him.
I guess these women are desperate to get other women’s husbands, they lend their ears, eyes, body to do so for various reasons. Mine did for money. She thought he was rich and he showed it to her by providing her, taking her to trips to other countries, paid for her airfare to be with him in the USA and spent a lot of money on her.
he thought he could get away with it and not get caught. He still loves you but i would take him back for feal that he would do that to you again. Stay strong with your convictions!
Because there really is a difference between a "good" woman and
the "right" woman.
It’s the 80/20 rule. If men have an 80% woman they see a woman that has the 20% their current one is lacking and leave to find she is only a 20% woman.
Probably because she can suck the chrome off a trailer hitch you you aren’t as good as it.
Her ‘popularity’ certainally would attest to that, wouldn’t it? What’s worse is your ex. He sees the error of his ways….sort of. He ‘wants you back and loves you’ but not enough to end it all with her. Of course he’s shown you where his allegiences lie and so good for you for standing your ground.
Face it. Some men base their decisions in life as to how good someone can blow ‘em. Amazing.
So there you have it. No matter what I tell you its not necessary to know exactly what runs through his head. Who cares anyway? he made his bed…now he’s looking for someone to lie in it with him.
Aren’t you glad it isn’t you?
Now whose the better person? If you don’t know I’d suggest you start looking for a mirror in the house.
Men are generally stupid when it comes to relationships.
Cheaters cheat, simple as that.
He cheated, she cheated, they will cheat on each other.
Some men need variety to feel "manly"
Sometimes love is not enough, sorry.
I know how you feel, my first wife left me for a tweeker (HA)
He must think someone died and he became King. What a spoiled, rotten bastard. He is humiliating you now by rubbing in what he thinks you want to hear. Choosing a partner is a personal choice depending on your morals, concepts and religious believes. Show me a man that married an unreformed prostitute and I’ll show you a very insecure man. Its not a rule of thumb that we always chose good people. We chose what we are. Be thankful that he is out of your life, to each, its own. You move on and chose a good man for your life.
Boy does that sound familiar. Same here sister. I think a lot of it has to do with the woman. She knows how to twist and turn a man and he thinking with the smaller head looses all good sense. Mine said the same thing to me about wanting me. I figure he just wants his cake and eat it too. I always said the best revenge on the woman that steals my husband is to let her have him. So I did. And guess what they didn’t last. But I made my life better and now live well.
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She must be giving him something. I can guess what that is. Some men don’t appreciate the home life and dedication that they get from their wives. They prefer something else.
she gives him bum sex
Sometimes men get bored with what they have at home and they think its exciting to be with some other hussy who is going to give him whatever he wants in bed. He doesn’t have to worry about finances or any responsibilities when he’s with her and its all brand new. He’ll grow tired of her also when he wakes up and see’s her not at her best. People can be selfish and ungrateful. You deserve a man who appreciates all that you do for him and one that doesn’t stray.
Boy, this chick is really shaking the family tree, huh?
I think it’s a purely sexual thing ~ there’s no love there. He may have just wanted some new stuff. I know that’s not very comforting to you, but I think it’s just the facts.
I also believe what goes around, comes around. One day, your ex will also catch her sleeping with another man.
The same thing happen to be, mine lefted me and our son for a woman who didnt have anything. He ended up working 2 jobs to take care of her lazy ass, and all she did was complain. He is very unhappy, and has tired many of times to come back in to my life. Recently I forgave him, and he is not his old self. She has used him up to where he is not even the same strong healthy person I remember. His self esteem is so low and his sexual drive is that of a 90 year old man. All he wants to do is go out and eat at different resturants, he is always asking me if I am hungry. He told me that he and the other woman eat out alot, which explains why she is so fat. But because I want to have a friendly relationship wit him, I try not to make fun of him, but he got what he deseved.