Why do men leave everything behind?
Ever notice when the marriage ends men take little from the house, in some cases just their clothes?
I understand in some cases the woman and kids remain in the home so you wouldn’t take or divide material possessions. Excluding this situation, I’ve seen many men just leave cheerished belongings & everything and just walk.
A) Do men do it because they don’t want painful reminders?
B) They are conditioned to give everything over to the woman?
C) The man is shattered by the system, by failure & feels unworthy?
Not looking for sympathy at all, just raising awareness, because I feel men’s issues lack major understanding & support. I also think there’s a link between this and why children are fatherless.
At the rate we’re going if nothing changes children will eventually have one parent.
* Maybe the 37" plasma TV his prize prossession at one time. The Bedroom set. the couch, etc.
****** Some call men Losers, They don’t see there kids.
Women don’t admit they worked vindictively hard to remove the Father from the childs life.
With all the claims, he was an abusive husband it a miracle Father’s have any rights period.
Jude: In a generalized way you portray women as Victims & Men as Abusers.
Women leave and divorce and break up the family at a much higher rate than men.
You have all been indoctrinated by focused interest groups, by their advertising & propaganda to believe one thing.
Women are innocent victims & Men are oppressive abusers.
George: It sounds like your saying There’s a political agenda to elliminate the role of father.
Reducing men to Sperm & ATM machines.
George, where are Men & father’s in the Movement? Is it just starting to gain strength? Where can I be of best help? I know men are become active as have received the short end one too many times.
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Mostly it’s because the woman tells them to leave, and they actually think they have to, taking only their clothes.
Claiming abuse and getting a restraining order, with no evidence is simple, as David Letterman learned the hard way, costing him thousands of dollars to defend.
David Letterman
Ease Of Making A False Allegation & Getting A Restraining Order
http://www.people.com/people/article/0,,1143004,00.html
As for fathers having access to their children, during the Clinton Administration, the Dept. of Health & Human Service was commissioned to conduct a study to determine that divorced and single fathers had little interest in being involved in the lives of their children. It was to be a 50-state titled "Survey of Absentee Parents". Hillary Clinton wanted to prove her "It Takes A Village To Raise A Child" to be the right one, and that fatherless families was as good as intact families.
A preliminary result report was generated after the first five states was done, in order to do a Press Release on the result just before Father’s Day. But, no Press Release was ever done and the funding for the rest of the study was canceled.
It seems the preliminary results had an unexpected result. It showed that over 60% of fathers with court ordered visitation had filed enforcement actions with the first 60 days. Unfortunately, the courts were unwilling to enforce the orders, resulting in the fathers losing all contact with their children within five years.
As a previously divorced woman…most of that crap is ours anyway. Why take stuff you dont want?
And lots of kids already have one parent.
whats he gonna take? curtains? iron? washer and dryer? wedding pics? what the heck is there to take?
37 inch tv? blah, that’s so 2002. and a bedroom set? gimme a break, guys don’t give 2 chits about a bedroom set. and you can get a couch that your b*tch of an ex wife didn’t sit on from craigslist for 100 bucks….
They do it because they want to "travel light". they would rather start over–from scratch because there’s less to deal with.
I know why cause they are LOSERS!
Whenever a man gets divorced he packs his things and never sees his children. He just leaves and starts a new life. And the mother has to take care of the children all by herself. Men are worthless.
D) He simply doesn’t care about items at that point.
Men generally care very little about all the "stuff" that get accumulated in a marriage. Personally I was so glad to get rid of my ex, I would have given her my clothes. It was just a relief to have her out of my life. I didn’t want anything that even vaguely reminded me of her.
It’s such a pain in the a** to fight for anything, it’s easier just to let the women have it. It’s just stuff anyway and women seem more attached to those things than men are.
Not all men leave with just the clothes on their backs. My ex took a fair share.
Well often times, the stuff either belonged to the woman ahead of time, OR he let her keep it in the divorce to lower his overall settlement.
Also a lot of times the kids stay with the woman and he doesn’t want them to be without furniture.
Men arnt the only ones who just split. I took nothing but my kids. His crap wasnt worth fight for. his bull sh** was so bad it was easer and less stressfull to just get out he could have everything just get the hell out of my life.I have had peace evor sence and dont reget leaveing it all for him.
i think its because he doesn’t want to be confronted, doesn’t care about materialistic things unless its something he can use at the new woman’s house. i also think they don’t want any reminders of the woman he is leaving because if there were something he might feel badly when he thinks of her and what he did to her so he just starts over with all new things, plus the other woman he Left u for already has everything.
usually a woman decorates the house and chooses the colors etc.
men usually hate the stuff anyway.
The partner who initiate the divorce process normally leave home leaving all the materialistic things.
Second, the man is generally an earning partner and is expected to create all these things again and the lady left behind is a house-keeper so that she can enjoy the life without much difficulty.
I think that must be the logic.
OMG you know why they usually leave everything behind. Because the women usually gets to keep EVERYTHING, a man is luckily to have a few pieces of clothes when the divorce is over. Not to mention the house he paid for, hell he can say goodbye to that.
If the guy is a failure (money, work, bad), he leaves most of his stuff behind. They want to have a fresh start and another shot at making it better (for them)…usually with the same result.