Signs Your Ex Still Loves You
So what should you be looking for? Is your ex suddenly turning up everywhere you go? I don’t mean in a way that would suggest stalking you but in a casual just happened to be at the same place type way? Don’t forget that your ex knows you intimately so it wouldnt be difficult to work out where you are going to be. The fact he/she is making this effort to find you would suggest he or she wants you back.
Is he or she always smiling and well dressed? Again these are big clues that they want to rekindle romance with you as the advice is always to appear happy and well turned out as nobody wants to be with someone miserable.
Have they taken to calling or texting you about little things? Are they looking for excuses to talk to you? If this is the case, this is the strongest signal yet that they want you back. Do you want them back? If so, why not ask them to meet and sit down and have a chat. I don’t believe in the rule that you should always wait for the other person to make the first move. You could end up waiting your entire life and that would be a waste for everyone involved.
On the other hand you could find that your ex has disappeared into the sunset and is not to be found. This could also be a sign that they want you back but are following the “absence makes the heart grow fonder” approach. I don’t understand why people bother with this technique as if you are not available to talk, how can you fix a problem in your relationship? But a lot of counselors suggest it as a way of dealing with a break up and unfortunately their clients listen. Worse still, some people will advise your ex to start dating someone else in the hope that this makes you jealous. I don’t know about you but I would get angry if my ex did this to me but I suppose it would get my attention. I would never suggest to anyone they try this tactic as it could so easily backfire and it is never right to play with another person’s emotions.
If you are looking for more hints on how to get your ex back, you should read the Magic of Making Up by T W Jackson. Just head over and read the testimonials to see how often this book has helped couples get back on track on the road to relationship happiness. Couples just don’t say together through luck. Those in happy partnerships are there because they work at it and spend time together helping to deepen the bond that began with the initial attraction. If you want your ex back, go and get them and work together to try and find a way to rekindle the love and passion you both once shared.
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