How do you make your man fall in love with you again? men and women views?
Hi stuff is been really dead in my marriage and i wanted to know how you can get your guy to fall in love with you or for him to realise you are the one for him and he would be making a big mistake if he left…he still loves me but it’s slowly dying off and i want to save my marriage..please help guys views accepted too!!
When we got married i never used to clean,cook and do household chores and that’s when he started falling out of love, but now i do all this and he still says he can’t fall in love all over agian, so what should i do? is he ever gonna fall back in love if i comtinue doing this?
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There’s no way to "make" someone fall in love with you. What you can do is let him know everyday how loved he is and give your all to making your marriage work. Don’t just tell him you love him, show him. Let him know what he would be missing if he were to leave. Best of luck to you.
Anything new in the sex department that you can offer ?
Pay attention to him and be submissive and attentive..
That is very feminine and endearing to men…
You can’t ever make someone love you. I would suggest getting your own interests and your own life, seperate from him.
Try talking to him to see what the issues might be, tell him what you told a bunch of strangers. LOL
Good luck!
try to have some alone time with him. try doing the things you used to with him before the kids (if any) and the long work hours. Try and help him remember of the good times you both had, and if all fails make him jealous by thinking you may have an admirer, that will make him see you in a whole new way..
a woman can not make a man love her either he does or not you can try but usually it is a waste of your energy!
You both just need to try and do the things you did before you were married.
Start communicating more, do some things that he likes to do, spice up your love making by introducing new positions and activities, show him and tell him how much he means to you and vice verse.
Good Luck!
Well, you can’t make a person love you. But, if you’d like to liven your marriage up you can do many of the following;
1) Plan activities and surprise your hubby. Picnics, Trip to the movies, a walk in the mall, an evening out to dinner, etc.
2) Keep yourself in good shape. Don’t think that because you’re married that you can let yourself go. This is a common problem.
3) Liven sex up with games like role playing and sexual dice. Also, throw some toys into the mix. It’ll be something new and exciting.
4) Be willing to compromise.
5) Talk to your husband. Communication is a key factor in a marriage.
6) Enjoy your alone time with him. Cuddle and watch movies in the dark. There’s nothing wrong with feeling like teens again.
7) Less stress in TRYING to perfect a marriage and more effort in realizing no marriage is perfect but can get better with a few tips.
Good Luck.
Start remembering what got him in love with you in the first
place. Guys like lot of flirting and teasing. Try planning a romantic
get away. Buying some sexy clothes to take with you.
Unfortunatly, it is impossible to make someone love you, but you CAN do things to lighten up both of your lives. Making your husband a romantic dinner for two with candle light and all. Buying yourself some new lingerie to tempt him with. The best gift to give a guy is yourself and preferably in tasteful lingerie that makes your curves look flawless. I have asked over 100 guys this questions and they all say it is the best present their girl could give them.
There are many things though…this is just one.
it is very hard to make someone love you when they don’t want to love you but your marriage is wroth it it might be bad to say but my husband and i where going through a hard time so i just stop paying attention to him i went to work came home did what ever i needed to do just being me and doing alot of thinking not really trying look over him it went that way i was what some people say i was finding myself and he saw i was not thinking about him acting like i did not care and he broke down wanting to talk and work things out he came to my job with balloons and dozens of roses just pull your self away a little he will realize you wroth something his everything and he will come to you
try planning a weekend away just to talk and try to work things out spice things up in the bedroom if hes open to that,leave him notes that say i love you
lose some weight,have a breast enlargment,buy sex toy for u and him to play in bed,learn how to do many orgasms for ur husband,let him see u play with ur self to turn him on,have sex in a wild mad way,have some romance,flirt with him,approach him in a sexual manner,do unexpected things,change ur style of clothing.,,etc u got the picture i hope..be creative.
Put the romance and the flame back into your marriage. Plan romantic times together. Light a candle and play some soft music and be his lover again. Always smell like you just got out of the shower and keep yourself looking nice. Shave your legs and put on some lip gloss. Rub his back and massage his rear end (gluteus maximus) muscles. Kiss him on the back of the neck and surprise him with a chocolate brownie or his favorite snack. Men love sex and nothing gets them in a state of happiness like sex.
You are in love. Didn’t they warn you about this when you first met? I wasn’t warned’ either. Yes, It happens to us guys too. Ignore the girl who said to leave-obviously a coward, running away from everything, I don’t see that in your ques. We change as we age and go through all those trials together in life. If you love your mate, you don’t just "leave", you work it out. He loves you hon, he just got caught up in the hustle. Good girls here. Mine woke me up once with red lingerie , candles, and that first month type sex when I walked in from work one day. I got the hint. We talked about all of it. No blame. It worked. Really. luck, Rat
okay you cant make him fall in love with you but you can make him see what he is missing go out for the night with the girls and get really dressed up and he is sure to be surprised if anything or try spicing your sex life up whats wrong with acting like a teenagerfor once . Leave him saucey messages on his phone so he cant wait till he gets home . Plan a romantic evening for yourselfs. Even go on holiday that way the 2 of you are alone to talk