I Feel Like My Husband Doesn’t Love Me Anymore
Are you quietly thinking to your self “I feel like my husband doesn’t love me anymore”? You know, as time goes by in a marriage, it’s quite possible that both partners start drifting into their own little worlds, without realizing that they are also drifting away from each other.
Although the change is usually slow, you might feel as if you just woke up one morning and all of a sudden things were different. All of a sudden your husband doesn’t love you anymore.
And now you are asking yourself, how do I get my husband to love me again? Many women like you are asking themselves the same questions. Or they have asked themselves these questions and found the answer.
While every situation and all circumstances are different, there are some common elements to “lost love” in a relationship.
But before we talk about lost love, first ask yourself, are you sure that your husband doesn’t love you anymore? Has he told you so?
If he’s behaving strangely or acting different, this does not necessarily mean he is not in love with you anymore, although it most likely means he’s also questioning himself about the matter.
Before you go on trying to win back your husband’s love, make sure that you have lost it in the first place, or your efforts may only backfire.
In many cases, in order to get your husband’s love back, you first need to work on yourself. Have you been neglecting yourself and putting the needs of your kids and husband first? That’s very common. Of course, your kids come first, but you also need to dedicate some time for yourself.
If you’ve put on some extra pounds, make a plan to eat more healthy meals or get in a little exercise, and take them off. Take the time to dress in clothes that flatter you and make you feel good about yourself. Go out with the girls every once in a while and let your husband take care of the kids.
Do what you need to do to get your “mojo” back. You may be surprised at how just a little bit of self-awareness will get you in terms of feeling more confident and therefore looking more attractive. As you’re going through your make-over, try to distance yourself from your husband.
Of course if you are living in separate households, this is easier. However, if you are still under the same roof, just go on about your life in a detached manner.
Don’t be mean or cold. Be friendly and positive, but just minimize your contact with your husband.
This newer (really, it’s the older) you will also spark more interest from your husband. This is the person he fell in love with in the first place.
So, if you’ve been asking yourself, “how do I get my husband to love me again”, start by asking yourself, “what can I do for myself now”?
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