If these are your thoughts after a breakup and you still miss your former lover, then you are actually already in a good position to turn the tables to where they were before, or maybe to even make your relationship stronger than it ever was.
Relationships take work and as the days, weeks, months, and even years roll on, many tend to slack off on their responsibilities when it comes to keeping their end of the bargain in a relationship.
No matter who decided to end your relationship, or even if it was a mutual decision, it is probable that both of you played a little role in the “slacking”.
If you’re asking yourself “can I make him fall in love with me again,” you have probably already realized this and are now ready to make up for lost time.
The first thing you need to do in order to get your guy’s love back is to take care of yourself, if you’re not already doing so.
Remove “him” as the first thought in your mind and replace that with yourself.
Taking care of yourself means eating right, getting some exercise, taking the time to dress in flattering clothes that express your personality, going out with friends, joining some activities that you enjoy, etc.
This also means that you should not be contacting your guy in any way right now.
This is your time to turn yourself back into an attractive magnet that will win back his love.
This might also be the hardest part in the whole process. Even if you don’t feel like going out with friends or putting on make-up, or whatever you need to do to look good and feel better about yourself, push yourself to “fake it ’til you make it.”
You’ll soon find that you are no longer faking it. Your new positive lifestyle will be a part of you and you will be getting back to the person your man fell in love with in the first place.
Maintaining a distance from his will also help to peak his curiosity, especially if you’ve been desperately trying to hang on to him until now.
Once you’re at a stage where you feel better about yourself and more confident, you can consider arranging a meeting with your guy.
Make it something really simple like coffee. You don’t want to commit to something to long and complicated in the beginning. If he declines the invitation, don’t fret. Just wait a few weeks or a month or so and ask again. If he accepts, meet him and talk about easy stuff.
There’s no need to get back into your old relationship battles or discuss anything at all related to what you once had.
Keep your meeting short and you must be the first one to leave. Say that you have an appointment or another engagement and that it was wonderful to see him again.
Those are the first two steps in the “How Can I Make Him Fall In Love With Me Again” plan.