Dirty Tricks To Get Your Ex Back
If you have recently been through a painful break up, chances are you are looking for some dirty tricks to get your ex back.
The very first thing you need to do is re-evaluate this. You may be putting yourself through some unnecessary drama if this relationship wasn’t meant to be. If, however, you are convinced that there is nothing better that you can be doing than getting your ex back, there are several things that will help you accomplish that.
1) Don’t get over ambitious. It can be easy to get passionate about getting back together. Nothing wrong with a little passion, but there is such a thing as taking it too far. If you try to force the issue or try to move things too quickly you could end up scaring your ex off.
2) Regain control of your life. It may seem like things have spun out of control since the break up, but that isn’t going to help you get your ex back. If you want to have a relationship that is more under control, then it needs to have partners in it who are in control of their own life. Not only will this give the relationship a better chance, it will help you look more attractive. People are drawn to confidence and if you are in control of things you will have that confidence.
3) Avoid the drive-by. You may be incredibly interested in what is going on in their life and you might miss them terribly, but try to avoid driving by their house. This will only help you look obsessed and desperate. You are more likely to get a restraining order than you are to get your ex back.
4) Give it some time and space. If the relationship just recently ended, allow a cushion in there. If you force yourself back into their life when they want a break from you, any bad feelings that they have towards you will only be amplified. Allow them a chance to miss you and for them to cool down their negative thoughts towards you.
5) Don’t bother their friends and family. It’s not a bad thing to be concerned or worried about them. It isn’t a bad thing to want to know what they are doing. It is a bad thing to start pestering the ones they care about. If you keep calling them or keep inquiring about your ex, they may get tired of you quickly. Few people want to be a middle man and most people resent being put in that situation. When that happens, they will most likely not have good things to say about you when they talk to your ex.
There are many other things that you can do that may help you get your ex back. Just make sure that in your efforts you don’t push them further away. The best free tips on how to get your ex back will help you accomplish that.
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If you really are meant for each other then it would be easier just to go to him/her and apologize for whatever you have done, even though it wasn’t your fault. And if you are sure that he/she is your better half, then he/she will eventually forgive you…
I couldn’t agree more. I once was in this situation, trying to win my ex back, that I didn’t realize I was choking her some more. It was Christmas season that time, I showered her with gifts and flowers, thinking the Holiday spirit will make her lighten up. Boy was I wrong. She became even more mad at me! *sighs*
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I wanted my ex husband back. It was the Holidays, and I was emotional. I texted him a lot. And, I was being a nag. I realize that, now. Time is the best medicine. Both have a lot of work to do. I have to remember why I left the relationship, and filed for divorce. Thinking back, there was a lot of fighting going on. Time, Time Time. I am working on me, and that is the best place to start.
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Some of these I wouldn’t classify as “dirty tricks” but rather “reasonable things to do” to get your ex back.
it never worked for me…i’m attached to whoever last made love to me and impatient (i want marriage, motherhood, and the freedom those both come with! i’m sick of my parents, i’m almost 29 and i hate being single. i need to go out and have fun, but too shy and scared of rejection to approach others… an entire family is spreading rumors about me, my ex started them…he told someone a lie, based on words that i didn’t think thoroughly. i lack social skills (MEANING ONE WRONG WORD OR PHRASE=BAD LUCK! i also blab when upsett…meanign anxious…)and he twisted my words…and then he thought he was bad guy and doesnt deserve me…even though that person is just hurting himself and i feel hurt when hes hurt…i lack empathy, so i need hugs and love all the time, but everyone im around hates me or winds up scared or hating me…because i smother/needy/emotional/need to be given what i need because i’m lazy when depressed and my fam always plays mind games to hold me back from working and cmake me anxious and guilt-tripped…)…
i need someone (a friend/lover) to talk to daily or i get CABIN FEVER, BECAUSE I HAVE NOONE TO TALK WHEN SINGLE TO AND ONLY MY LOVER CAN UNDO IT. MY FAM VERBALLY MISTREATS ME/PLAYS MIND GAMES WITH ME, i need to have people around me and i need to get away from unaffectionate people who treat me like a dog/property). i have few or no friends and ,my fam don’t care, they are atheists (they make fun of Christianity and my ex, and me!), refuse to even bring me to the church of my choice.
everyone around me hates me and its because i was jilted by akatosh at rains dot net even though we are both good together…hope someone can help us get back together (get us ona some talk show or something now! i’ll do anything, please help us get back together…or i’ll just sit around and ocd over it…and i feel forced by evrryone to go see another guy, even though the idea degrades me…and iwas going to get married this year. where are all the couple supporters? the christians who supports second chances and loves and marriage? do any of you even support second chances? anyone wanna help us? any God-believeers help us?)
fam only keeps me alive, they provide only the basic needs and little else, because they are poor and miserable. have no transportation when i want it. that always been the problem in va! noone cares that my fiance dumped me for the most trivial reasons after investing a lot. noone been praying that we get back together. noone cares that we both are suffering from the breakup and that we are beating ourselves up over what happened and noone thinks we are good together even though we were! noone cares that the sex was serious and from love! if you believe in love and second chances then whya ren’t you praying for it.
i feel smothered by my relatives, because i am hated by them, told not to do something and then told the opposite all the time. they don’t want me here and yet, they keep me here and play mind games with me all the time! so i look elsewhere and feel the need to runaway…and go where love is…and every man who loved/loves me just leaves me and i just cannot wait for them to return…because my body craves them…craves their body, communication, and soul! i become attached…its because of sex, all the promises, the communication was positive, and how well i was treated before the person left!
i have changed, i know why i was dumped, but i disagree with the person…and i want the man back…noone is praying for us to get back together! they all pretend that i don’t exist and don’t care about me and don’t care that i graduated form college. i’m an ugly stupid person!
I NO LONGER CARE ABOUT ANYONE EXCEPT A PERSON WHO LAST HAD SEX WITH ME. I HAVE REMAINED CHASTE SINCE…AND THIS IS A PUNISHMENT…GOD IS MAD AT ME. EVRYONE HATES ME.
IF YOU DON’T CARE, THEN I DON’T THINK YOU’LL PRAY THAT I GET WHO AND WHAT I WANT, SO I CAN HAVE BACK WHAT I LOST! I SAID HORRIBLE THINGS ON THE WEB IN THE PAST…I TAKE A LOT OF IT BACK, BUT YOU ALL DON’T CARE. I DON’T SEE ANYONE PRAYING FOR ME TO GET WHAT AND WHO I WISH AND WANT FOR!
i’m just typing…my words are my worst enemies…AND also my only friends offline…I AM ALONE.
its because the guy doesn’t know anything about mild social problems and doesn’t recognize that he is the same way, we are alike to the point of …we are so much alike…i didn’t notice we had so much in common. he also doesn’t know what ptsd is (i think thats why i have a panic/anxiety disorder…i told him, but he ignored it…i was beaten a s a kid by my mother, breakups left me vulnerable and untrusting of anyone, you all seem to think i deserve to be jilted! you seem to believe i don’t deserrve marriage or kids!
you seem to think that my sibs deserve the freedom and spoilage that they get!
you don’t believe that me and my ex love each other.
Good advices, especially the last one. A lot of people makes the mistake of going crawling back to the ex’s family and trying to convince the mother or the father to talk to his son in the interest of them.
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