Help please! Ex-girlfriend’s revenge/behavior driving me out of apt!?
My now ex-girlfriend and ex-best friend of a year broke up with me three weeks ago (btw i’m a girl). We have an apartment together and things have been horrible! If I try to talk to her I’m not giving her the space she wants, but if I give her the space she wants I’m being rude. She treats me like crap and has made it well aware that I cared about her more because I have been the only one fighting to keep the relationship alive.
Now I have no idea what to do because I feel depressed in the apartment! I live about six hours away from my home and my family thinks its best to come home, but I really love my apartment. My ex is also bringing this guy over the apartment and last night he slept over while I was there. I was completely devestated, and when I tried to ask her what was going on she said "I don’t owe anything to do, I live my own life, I can do whatever i want". It has only been three weeks since the freakin breakup, and what the hell is this guy a rebound or something?
After we broke up she said she can’t be someone she’s not, but I feel like she’s living in denial about her sexuality because you can’t just switch your emotions so quickly and forget about somebody like that and move on. Does it seem like she is trying to make me jealous and make me more miserable than I already am? I don’t deserve this, I thought she was the love of my life 
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So your saying you love your apartment more than you love your own sanity.
That’s insane!
The reason your still there is because you haven’t moved on…….and you still want some level of control over her.
She will do nothing but break your heart, she has moved on.
If you are not signed to the lease and are able to leave without any financial attachments remaining at that apartment then it is time to move out. Whether you go home or just get a new apartment.
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Go home, get your act together…
Yeah forget about her she is trying to make you go crazy and yes she is trying to make you jealous! Go HOME!
she may care about the guy but what she is doing to you is wrong. you need to get out of there
you have 2 choices either be platonic friends or move out. if you want to stay in the apartment you have to stop liking her and accept her as friend only, if you do this explain to her that you love your apartment and you want to move on from the relationship and be just friends from now on, if you can’t move on move out.
don’t cry for someone who won’t cry for you. she is being cruel. move out and come back when you feel ready. you need to be around ppl who care
This is no absolute but after breaking up with someone, the two of you really should NOT be living in the same space. Seeing one another every day will simply serve to aggravate both of you and not allow either of you time to regroup, refocus and put things in perspective. "time heals all things" and in this case you need to couple it with different living arrangements.
Again, I’m not saying lovers CAN’T be friends but you can’t do that right after a break up (and yes, he’s a rebound…)
Move out or move home (or have her move out).
bahaha fuking montel williams go buy his new appliance lol what a fn joke / dump that beotch and move on home lol/ the difficulty of living with someone you had an intimate relationship with would not be easy for most people including her and you it seems as you obviously did not have what ppl call an open relationship to begin with.
Perhaps now you know what its like being a guy involved with some crazy beotch.