how do u get your wife to love u again. now i’am facing a seperation. i love her and dont want to lose her

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7 Responses to “how do u get your wife to love u again. now i’am facing a seperation. i love her and dont want to lose her”

  • angelsmommy says:

    Try to get her at a good time where it is quiet and tell HER how you really FEEL. Suggest marriage counseling if you haven’t done so…

  • Elwood says:

    You need to figure out what caused you to lose her. maybe that can be fixed or improved. Try counseling or talking it out!

  • Amanda80 says:

    You have to swallow your pride & tell her how you feel. Research a list of therapists and ask her to attend some sessions with you.

  • SKIPPERS GIRL says:

    The first thing to do is to become friends again…you need friendship with any relationship..Try bringing her flowers once in a while..Taking her out to tea…A picnic in the park..A romantic hotel room for the night…Talk to her, tell her how much she means to you and you dont want to lose her…Have you tried some counselling with her..Surprise her..do little things for her to show how much you do care..help her with tea..around the house…dont give up until you have tried what you can..

  • rem5765 says:

    You can do little things that can win her back. Do something impulsive like a romantic picnic in the park, a nice dinner. Take her out on a date. It worked with me. Good luck to you.

  • Cing says:

    Dude, I am so sorry! I completely understand where you are coming from. It is just so hard to imagine how someone that you never imagined life without or even could dream of not loving could do that to you, right? I bet, before she said that, even through fights/arguments/disagreements… you felt like she was your teamate in life. Then, all of a sudden by saying those words, it is like she got traded to your arch rival, the enemy. It’s like one day you woke up and you knew how your life was going to play out, your world was spinning just like it would every day forever, and then she dropped that bomb on you and your world stopped spinning and started crashing down on you life you never, ever even imagined. Right? Yep, I know. Too many of us know.

    Unfortunately, there is no good answer to your question. If you treat her like a queen, it may work, but it may drive her away even farther. If you change whatever you do that she doesn’t like, it may work, but she might just see it as an act. If you express how much she has hurt you, she may feel sorry for you, think you are a crybaby or will think you are accusing her of causing this situation, which is true, but, trust me, she isn’t going to want to accept fault. If you don’t do anything, it may work, but if it doesn’t you may beat yourself up for not trying hard enough.

    Another horrible issue that you are going to have to face is are you ever really going to be able to forgive her for hurting you so bad? I mean, if she stays, are you really ever going to be able to get over this? Will you ever not be worrying about when she is going to pull this again? Are you going to walk on eggshells the rest of your life worrying that she might not love you if you make a mistake or standup for yourself? Those are really hard questions to answer.

    Dude, and I hate to do this, but it has really opened up the eyes of many dudes in your situation, check out womensinfidelity.com. Now, before you right it off saying that your wife isn’t cheating or that kind of girl, which may very well be true, read the posts taken from the book, and then check out some of the posts. It’s not all about cheating. It doesn’t have to be.

    Finally, try to clear your mind as best you can and try to analyze her motivation for doing this. What does she stand to gain? If she leaves you, where will she go? Will her parents take her and your 2 kids back in to their home? Can she survive financially without you? Is she a girl that takes care of herself? Has she ever lived alone, without parents, roomates or ex’s? Did she just bet that hurting you would allow her to get her way on something? or get you to give up something she doesn’t like? Why would she hurt the father of her kids so bad? Something to think about, huh?

    Stay Up Playa!

  • Mrs. M says:

    I would suggest you take her out , give her flowers, show her how much you care, tell her how much you care and that you want to try again…And whatever made her want to separate don’t do it…Fix it tell her she is the only woman you want and mean it

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