How Do I get my ex back?
I have been seeing this guy on and off for most of our lives. We lost contact when we were about 12 and just recently (3 months ago) found each other again. The other day we had a argument and he ended us. Then I found out that he had someone else but he told me that the brake up wasn’t forever. and then he emailed me and said it was best if we didn’t talk anymore. So what should I do? I heard that no contact is good but for how long? Please help this is really hurting me.
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Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back check these 3 recommended steps:
1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of the negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can’t achieve a goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you don’t want them..
2.Don’t pester your ex boyfriend. Men just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously sms him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s very important give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want you back. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting him back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it will be great to get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and try to eat healthy foods. When you look good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
I learned these tips and a lot more in a great guide that already helped more then 6100 in 67 different countries to get their ex back. You can find great review and information about this guide that was helpful for me here:
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I hope you will get your ex boyfriend soon!
obviously he does not want you to contact him and he is right i mean you dont want to hurt him anymore and he doesn’t want you to call him and the best thing for you is to move on…at least give him sometime and that could make him miss you or not…but wither way its a risk that you are taking. but give it like a month or so
I suggest moving on with your life. I know this sounds boring but it’s the best thing. If he realizes that your are interested after the recent situation between the two of you he will use this to his advantage. Don’t be angry or have resentment, simply move on. He’ll be supervised by your comfort level after the situation. You’ll cross his mind when you don’t call or bother to contact him, beside that’s what he wants so give it to him. Leave him alone he doesn’t deserve you and he made his choice, you will find better TRUST ME!
You shouldn’t ever get back with an ex because things will always end the same one or both of you gets hurt and you two break up and wasted time on a pointless relationship. If you two broke up the first time the same reasons that broke you up that time will resurface if you start dating again. Not to mention there are many more and much better guys out there. Who a relationship with would be much easier and more successful.
There’s also various articles about this particular topic on dating reform. Datingreform.com is a new site where people like you or people that been in similar situations that you’re currently facing can go post their own advice/experience and then other users can go and read about it so they don’t make the same mistakes. It’s a site that was established for the sole purpose of helping everyone change their dating lives and relationships for the better. Check it out sometime it might be able to help you.
I hope you found my answer to be helpful with your situation and I hope you have a great day. If you ever need anymore help please email me at arturunderwood@ymail.com Please tell me how your situation turns out.
The site again is: Datingreform.com
i can say this is no good situation. I’ve been there before and i felt the same way you feel right now. i know the solution to your problem ..visit this place http://how2get-your-x-back.blogspot.com/
then use the book i used ..i give you my word, you will have him back in few weeks.
Get him back? or get back at him?
Usually a few nails and a baseball bat do the trick, if you know what I mean…