Is my girlfriend losing interest in me?? DO I HAVE TO GET OVER HER?? plzz help!!!?
I’ve been with this girl for over 2 years now. We were in a relationship for about 8 months (on and off, she had broken up 4 times cuz she stopped liking me) and then totally broke up…she strted liking me again recently, about 4 months ago and we got really close. I had liked her all this time, even when she didnt like me. Though, we’re not in a relationship anymore cuz her religion doesnt allow her to. We dont have any physical relationship at all, not even holding hands, she says she feels guilty(we used to hug but no more than tht in our first month and after tht she told me off completely)
I am fine with everything and i love her from all my heart, and i always tell her tht and make her feel special. She told me about 4 months ago she likes me again and i told her i like her as a friend at tht time cuz i didnt want to be hurt again, but she showed me she has changed and so i gave in and told her i like her too. Eventhough we werent in a relationship, we were committed to each other (as in we talked and got mad if the other did something wrong)
Since summer has strted, i’vent seen her. I used to go to her work to see her but she told me she’s not comfortable seeing me during summer, she says "i dont know why, im just gay like tht, it was like this last summer too right? its not like i dont talk to u, its just like im not dying to see u" …so she told me to not go see her anymore.
I dont mind her talking to guys, but the problem is MOST of her friends r guys, and almost ALL of them like her the way i like her (not as MUCH as i love her of course). And she talks on the phone, texts, and talks on msn with them, even when they flirt with her. THe only good thing is she tells me almost everything they say or do. One of them is her coworker and he openly flirts with her and says he wishes she was his wife and says stuff like "i love u beautiful" etc.
The problem is, almost every guy she talks to strts liking her, and then she still reponds the way so tht the guy doesnt stop liking her, like she doesnt want to lose her fan following -_- this just really pisses me off but i cant complain cuz i’ve talked to her about it in the past and she just said "u complain way too much for yr age"
She never says i like u anymore or makes me feel special, and she just sounds soo uninterested when she talks to me on msn or on phone sometimes.
We’re noth 17, she’s turning 18 this month. I am mature enough to let it go if she doesnt like me anymore, it’ll be hard but i’ll have to do it. Plzzz tell me if im over reacting, and plzz dont tell me to talk to her about it and ask her if she likes me cuz whenever i do, she just gets mad at me for being too serious and getting her stressed.
Plzzz plzzzz help me out with this one!!!
Related Posts
- My therapist says that my abusive husband really doesn't mean what he says. What do you think? My therapist says that it is worthwhile to save abusive 12 year marriage because of the history and we have 2 small kids. I told her that I want to leave and she's telling me that I am giving up too easily (we've only been to her twice). I feel......
- Ok the bible is Basic Instruction Before Leaving Earth-Is Jesus your savior&friend? Im Jew4Jesus He is mine!!! if you never let Jesus in your heart just say no-dont say mean stuff to me-if you never experienced Jesus his joy love and power and changed life-then you dont got a clue-it would be like you saying how it feels to be a fish or a bird. so just......
- What should i do to win my ex girlfriend back? this past friday, me and my ex broke up me for unknown reasons. she told me that she wasnt happy being with me and was always depressed. and that it couldnt go no further. i tell her that it can work out we just need to talk about but she......
- I need suggestions , what else can I do to try to save marriage, kinda long? I have been married for 8 months, been with him for 2 and a half years. Our marriage has turned into a legal friendship. I have had 3 serious relationship talks with him in the past 2 months. Here are the problems. One is that he is on Lexapro, has......
- I have nothing to say to my girlfirend anymore,it seems i have nothing intresting to tell her? I have been with my girlfriend for abot six months, and its had its up and downs like with everyone and like were both pretty happy, exept it seems we have nothing to say to one another anymore other then how was your day, what did you do, how was......
- sex therapy=last chance to save marriage, but:? sex therapy is the last chance i have to save my marriage but i don't even feel like going. how can you expect to save a marriage when you are not even attracted to the person? we have zero chemistry & sadly, i can't even remember why i was attracted......
- husband cheats but not want to talk after to save marriage? We have a 2 yr old kid, 16 yrs of marriage. Husb wanted a baby too, he refused any intimate relations with me after conceiving (breasfed 1 yr). He helped me in the house, shopping, is polite, had a job, but we had no physical contact at all. He kind......
- My Life as a Volunteer Tax Preparer - Week 6 This was yet another unique week of experiences for me in the volunteer tax preparer office. I had 5 appointments plus I picked up a 6th so one of the other volunteers could leave early. This 6th appointment was the most enlightening to me. More about that in a moment.......
- U.N. Climate Talks ‘Take Note’ of Accord Backed by U.S. [/caption] By ANDREW C. REVKIN and JOHN M. BRODER Published: December 19, 2009 COPENHAGEN — With the swift bang of a gavel on Saturday morning, a prolonged fight between nations small and large over an international pact to limit climate risks that was forged the night before by the United......
- Saving Money with your Phone There are a lot of different ways that you can cut down on what you spend in your household budget every month, and one such example is by saving money through how you communicate on the phone. Telephone services are easily capable of costing a typical family as many as......
- The Friday Gathering for 8/24/2007 It's time again for school to start. All of my children but 2 will be heading off on the buses Monday morning, their new backpacks full of clean paper, new pencils, and crisp folders. They are so excited and can't wait until Monday. Their mother is as well! Every year......
- Pay Off Debt or Save Money? Photo by db*photography A recent Yahoo! Finance article weighed the benefits of paying off debt versus putting your money into savings. You can read the original article by clicking on the following link: Should You Pay Debt Before Saving? Clearly, there is no one-size-fits-all answer to the question. The......
- Even more ways to save money, and some I dont agree with. Of course, everyone is always looking for a few ways to save a buck. And most everyone has their own secret little system to try to get the most for their dollar. Over at MoneyCentral, they have an article up that has 20 ways to save money "on a shoestring"...meaning......
- Go Green and Save Money with Water Saving Shower Heads Water saving shower heads are an easy change that saves water and saves you money. Not only will you use less water overall, which is good for the planet, you'll pay for less water, and you'll heat less water which will save energy and money, too. So why doesn't everyone......
Tagged with: 4 months • coworker • heart • holding hands • msn • physical relationship • religion • texts • tht • time cuz
Filed under: How To Save A Marriage
Like this post? Subscribe to my RSS feed and get loads more!
My advise to you is to MOVE ON! Sorry to tell you and I understand how hard this can be but dude this relationship has not been steady from the beginning… We all have doubts sometimes but she seems to always be in doubt about you and that is not good because you seem to be a pretty dedicated guy when it comes to relationships so you should expect the same. Besides it seems like she just wants to hang out with guys and get the attention of being single. Stop chasing her, but watch out most likely she will come back to you after she sees you are moving on but be strong and keep your way bc if not this is going to be an ongoing cycle.
GLuck
WOW… You are her best friend. It sounds like she is not interested in a bf gf relationship but just on a frendship level. Try moving on and dating and see if she comes around. If not, treasure your friendship with her.
she doesnt like you, she just wants to be loved.
the reason she doesnt tell anybody off is because she likes the attention and the feeling of being generally wanted.
you should just stop fussing over her, she isnt worth it.
Hey dude my girlfriend is still with me we r totaly in love but the past 2-3 weeks she has been slowin down lik jokin about breaking up an stuff. tellin me i should spend more time with my dad then her.. idk its kinda gettin lik ur problem. She doesent say “i love you too” she says, “love u2″ an it jus doesent sound sincere in txts or on the phone she says it fast. idk i need help to. maybe we jus have to much time on our hands? or i do.? i say u jus keep her around but let her kno u can leave at any second. thats what im guna try to do. man i hope it works. message me back or something bro, let me kno how it go’s? Tballa316@aim.com.
GoodLuck dude.