Ladies I Really need your Help on how to get Girlfriend Back!!! Please!!! Crying!!!?
My current girlfriend has hurt me in the past when she slept with my ex friend a few months ago when she broke up with me for a few months but we ended up getting back together with her promising that she would never leave me again. We are both in college right now and I’m a senior and she’s about to be a junior.
The other day, she was on vacation and two guys approached her and invited her to teach her how to surf. She basically got to know the guys and she told me about it that night.
Well I basically called her insensitive and naive because she is really attractive and she just assumes all guys want to be her friends which I know isn’t really true. Well after we got into a fight about this, she left me again. Despite me telling her that I overreacted, she says that I was right and that she isn’t ready for a relationship right now with anyone. I told her I was sorry and that I should I have had told her more gently that she was acting like this. I told her I was just jealous and that I overreacted. However, she still left me saying that still trusted me and that she loved me but she still wasn’t ready for a relationship. She told me it wouldn’t be fair to ask me to stay with her and that if I had to leave then she would miss me and that she loves me. She made me promise not to forget about her and to call her. She told me this felt wrong with breaking up with me. It’s been a couple of days now and we haven’t talked to each other. Should I just let it go now and wait for her to call? Or should I call her to talk to her?
Update: OK, I just called her after a week of no contact. I told her the truth how I honestly wanted her back and that I was heads over heels in love with her but now she says she’s still not ready for a relationship with me because she told me it doesn’t feel right without me or with me. She acknowleged that my love for her was really pure and strong and she wanted to fall back in love with me again. I told her we were in a relationship a long time before that and that at least she should be committed enough to be in a relationship first but she disagreed. She asked if I would come back later. What does she mean by all this? I’m really in love with her so how can I get her back? What are your thoughts on this whole thing? Will she come back if I don’t contact her? Please be as long as you want! I’m really heartbroken right now! 
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i kno how you feel ive been in this kinda of situation too. in my case it didnt work out though, i realized how stupid i was being, waiting on this guy who didnt get how i felt for him, eventually i moved on. its good to put urself out there, but maybe not so much. either shes scared she will screw up again and is being cautious, or she doesnt want to be with you anymore, i kno you dont want to hear that but its possible. im not saying there is anything wrong with you, people just do this sometimes, they freak out and leave you confused and hurt. my last boyfriend did something like this not too long ago. i told him that if he ever needed me for anything at all, to call me, and id be there for him. i told him that i loved him and when he was ready id try to trust him again and give us another try if he wanted. if not, thats his choice.
one of my friends told me this when i was trying to get over him, this was the reason i got over him if she hadnt said this, i probably wouldnt be here writing this right now…
"if he doesnt want you, why in the world do you want him?"
i hope i helped. good luck.
Can you write anything longer please
WELLL SHE IS BASICALLY ALLOWING YOU TO GET BACK WITH HER SHE OBVIOUSLY IS WILLING TO TAKE YOU BACK!
every one goes through that =/
don’t cry =[[
girls come && go
you'll find some one faithfull
and nice
some day =]]
(everything happend’s for a reason)
listen…honestly she loves you…but isnt in love with you..basically shes using u as a fall back..shes going to be hittin on other guys but she wants you there because she knows you will be..shes going to still ask you to call her and tell her that you love her but shes going to be with other guys..i would try and move on to spare yourself some hurt. you sound like a great guy..but she doesnt know what she wants and she still needs to grow up before she gets into a serious relationship
shes dumped you, a few times by the sound of it, slept with your friend… uhhmmm…??
your an idiot if you want her back, true love doesnt hurt!!!!
look as hard as it sounds it looks like she does want you to be there but only when shes ready! which means she is enjoying the single life right now, if she loves you as she says she does she would be back by now! i think she is full of sh*t and as hard as it will be for you, you need to get out there and start enjoying yourself! your only going to be heartbroken holding or trying to hold on to her.
I am so sorry that your heart is breaking. I understand as I am currently going through a heartbreak of my own. Honestly, if she is saying that she is not ready for a relationship, then perhaps you should give her some time…if she were to engage in a relationship with you again before she is ready, she would only hurt you with outside relationships (possibly) and perhaps she sees this and wants to avoid it. Is there anything you can do to win her back? I think that you have done what you can. She may come back to you. In the meantime, try to get out, see other people, it may be very helpful to you to help you through.
Best of Luck
ChynaRock
she means to wait awhile because you mus of really hurt her not that you meant to so just wait and try to keep comforting her and telling her you do love her if she really is true to her word and she really does love you then shell come back just be patient for her she needs to heal and think it out
shell come around