How Do I Get Back With My Ex Girlfriend/Baby Momma?
We broke up back in February.
We got back together around Easter time and things were great, she complained because I would ask about us officially being back together and stuff even tho we lived together and slept together.
For the most part we shared the same beliefs, drinking was dumb, drugs were dumb all that stuff.
Then she got into a fight with her family and they said she wasted her life due to the child and to stop butting in and ruining their good times.
Immediately after that she started partying and we broke up a day later, and ever since then I have had our son most of the time, she gets him sporadically but mostly comes up with excuses not to and seems to act like she misses him.
I found out she has a new boyfriend now. Everyone keeps telling me if I stay away and keep no contact with her she will come back because she will not find anyone better than me, to do all that I have done, because basically for 4 years I have been her family, taking care of her and all that.
She flunked out of her college class, and just seems to only care about her friends and herself.
Does anyone know of a way for me to turn this around and get her and my family back together?
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Hello
Winning back an ex is a very difficult thing to do. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win her back increase dramatically.
Here are few steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Your Ex Girlfriend To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore someone’s texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Don’t Be Jealous
You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it will probably be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Be Flexible
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It’s better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again very fast.
These tips may not be easy for you to do at first. You may want to give in and call her or see her, but you have to resist the temptation. If you are really serious about getting your ex girlfriend the best step to do is getting a good guide on how ot get your ex girlfriend back. You can learn about the most popular and 100% risk free guide here:
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seems like she has serious issues… feels trapped by you and the child. wants to be free, she’s young. i don’t know if you should be the one doing something now. i think you’ve done enough. do you think she’s the one for you? give her an ultimatum and if she doesn’t follow then move on. trust me she will be hurt. she’ll realize what she’s been missing
Well bro, I feel for ya… I have a good friend who has a similar story.
First, are there custody papers for your son? If no, get it!
Get a temporary child custody order, and inform the courts your ex is a druggy.
Then eventually you will have full custody of your son.
Your son should be the most important aspect of your life right now.
Or are you willing to have her raise him, while you give her money to support her partying life style?
T\hen after all the custody deal is done, and if you still want this loser of a chick, *yeah loser, she bailed on a baby, for her own selfish needs and wants LOSER
if you still want her back, send her a note saying, Hi, hope you’re well would love to get together for lunch or dinner and talk about life..
But don’t expect her to come back,
She is gone…
Take good care of that child of yours,
You are coming across as needy to her. You ask if you are getting together, you are the reminder of the responsibility she wants to duck. She is young and not ready to settle down. You are wasting your time hanging around waiting for her, especially as she has a new boyfriend. Maybe you should ask her to formally sign over custody of your son and get on with your life.
Talk to her
Talk to her family but without telling her that you have
She might get mad at first but if they make up she will thank you.
Then concentrate on getting your girl back.
Good luck
Hey, if you want her back dont play games. Dont drop hints. Tell her exactly how you feel. Call her now- seize the day! Life is too short to be a coward. This is going to be good for your kid!
Ive been out of our relationship for abo
ut 3 years now. We have 2 beautiful kids together which we do split custody of. Ive been in another relationship with a great girl, but whom causes me greif sometimes. Mostly behind my bm. My bm and i have always been friends and able to talk to eachother about anything on our minds. I know its wrong, but i have had intercourse with her a few times during mine and my ladies arguements and minor break ups, but i looked for that comfort from bm during this time. My bm recently got involved with a new guy whom she likes and and share a home with our 2 kids and seems happy. Before i leave it out i we had our share of chrating. I went to prison for 2 years where she left me alone and got pregnant with anothers child which she doesnt have custody of, and we rekindled our flame months after my release. About 3 years ago i stepped out of our relationship and got with my girl which we have a child together. Through those ups and downs through a 10 year period being together can someone plaese tell me how yo deal with this? We still love one another but we both have other lives. The love is still there, but dont want to hurt eachothers mates or even ruin what we may have next to us. Im never have been the jellous type, but seeing her happy but not with me kills me from time to time. What can do to cope with this situation? Let alone work towards winning her back on account of our lil ones? Its a messed of situation i know, but i feel i have to work towards getting my women back. Because thats just how i feel. Shes still my lady. Please let me know.