what can i do to make my wife love me again?

we have been together for five years we have three children and in the five years we have had our ups and downs. we have just got back together and now we are fighting again she trust me but there has been a lot of thing done in the past that every time that little green monster comes out when she want to go out.

i do addment at times i can be controlling, verbal, and over protective but there are reasons she has been rapped at least four times the most recent when we were split up this time.

she tells me that i dint treat her as my equal and she is sometimes right i do at times treat her as though she is beneath me but i don’t mean to i’m so in love with her i just wish i could show her that under this a$$ hole is the man she feel in love with

if anyone can offer advice please let me know and be honest on your answers

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6 Responses to “what can i do to make my wife love me again?”

  • apase says:

    firstly, 3 children in five years is flipping hard work. do you ever think how hard it is for your wife cooking cleaning and attending to three young children.
    rapes i hope you are supporting her with seeking counselling and guidance on how to rebuild her life after such a tragic experience.

    why oh why to you talk down to her, you also need to get advice on how you can change the way you are with her.do you ever take the children out and do nice things with them.

    i know now that you are asking us for advise but really mate we cannot help you, you have to "HELP YOURSELF" i am afraid.

    treat people with the respect you yourself would like to be treated with.

    good luck hope things work out for you both and the children.

    please seek advice, it takes a good man to ask for advice and wonderful husband and father to use that advice, to make your famliy life nicer for you all.

  • Final L says:

    she’s been rapped?
    by who? T-Pain?
    satisfy her in bed
    hit the g-spot
    find the clitoris

  • blazablunt4me says:

    Woman dont get raped 4 times. Enough said. She’s making you out to be the bad guy. Has any of these so called rapes been followed by legal action against the rapist? Highly doubt it. You’re up against a wall and cant see it for what it is. Move on. Too much baggage.

  • Molly B says:

    I have to agree with blaz. 4 times? Ahhh….no! don’t think so, man.
    You two need to get serious. Now’s the time. Do you want to be together? Then make it happen. Do you want to be parents? (kidda late for that decision but they DO see what’s going on here) Be GOOD parents. Make things right! Do it now! Get the help & guidance you need. If you have insurance, counseling is probably free for the first few visits & it only takes a couple visits to come up with a plan to work with.
    Waste no more time getting this family on track. BE the adult, BE the dad, BE the one who sets this family in the right direction. With or without her help.

  • Stacy Da Fla Gator says:

    First of all you need to deal with your insecurities and you need to show her that you are dealing with them. The only thing worst then an insecure man is an overly jealous one and you sound like both. Basically she needs to see that you are willing to turn over a new leaf. That you are going to really change and unless you show her ans convince her that she will not want to be there. Maybe even offer to seek marital counseling. It is hard for a women to leave a man that she really knows is giving 110 percent to change for the best. You need to show her she is your queen and it isn’t about looking weak. My man shows me that he needs me and therefore I was willing to work through his insecurities until he became more confident. And now I am glad I stuck through the hard times. Just let her know you are willing to change.

  • Hani says:

    Obviously she doesn’t know what she wants. Do you?
    Since you are back together, stop the fighting.
    Change, compromise and work together to keep the peace. Think of the children.

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