Will I ever find love again?
Sunday, August 16th, 2009 at
Will I ever find love again?
why is it so hard to just find someone who understands me. I feel like I’ve been dating little boys. I’m getting tired of it. I’m almost 20
I may be young but I’m def. mature for my age and this my friend is the truth
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Learn to love yourself and stop dating boy-toys. Come to the realization that you will have to accept this person as they are or not accept them. Stop excepting them to change for you. Approach someone based on personality over looks for once and see what happens or continue the same pattern and be miserable. Good luck!
It’s so hard to find the right guys nowadays but you just need to take time getting to know them before dating them. Your still young don’t worrry!
Best advice anyone can give you is "Stop looking." I was 30, had been divorced for 3 years, no strong relationship prospects, resigned to becoming one of those crazy old ladies with a lot of cats.
I started a new job, and ran into someone I had met twice before, both times with disasterous results. Well, we worked together, and sometimes he would come in to work a little early and we would get to talking. He was hitting on me, I never noticed. One day, everything just clicked.
We’ve been together 2 years now, and married for 9 months. I have never been happier. But, I truly had stopped looking. Love found me.
Well not to sound like a smart-ass but you are still young..and havent really been through anything to give up on Love…I am only 23 and I KNOW that i havent been through everything…the only person that can stop love is YOU….just keep looking and you will find the right one…you got plenty of time…
Hey! it aint easy to find a good girl in these days… almost all of them are either absesed with being skinny, or are a skank…
Ok…so you had me relating up till you said you were only 20. Of course you have been dating little boys!!!! DUH!!!! And when you say "find love again"…you are only 20!!! When did you have love to begin with?? When you were 12???
Any guy under 30 IS a boy…
I have the same problem dating women in their 20′s…
They all seem like little girls to me…I’m taking a 28-year old to my 25 High School reunion…She thinks my old schoolmates will be impressed with me…(but that would only be true if she doesn’t speak…hate to be kind of mean like that, but it’s true…)
So you may find older guys better, or you may just find older "boys…"
The best of both worlds would be to find someone closest to your own age that is as mature as you…
Good luck…
I’m not good giving relationship or dating advises.
if you stop looking for love, it will find you, when you less expect.
so you still have plenty of time
dating little boys and mature men two different thing.
when you see guy takes responsibilities for his own action and serve you, it means he is mature.
good luck to you.
keep you head straight.
S.T.
Even though you are mature for your age you are so very, very young. In your maturity you must realize that for your life to be successful that you do not require any other person to complete you. Every one should attain a position of being complete before seeking love. Go to college or just live your life for a while before even thinking of love.
Love is at its best when two people choose each other out of their completeness rather than by trying to find some one to make them feel complete. You have plenty of time later in life for love. For now live life care free becoming a better and more experienced you.
Understand…I just wish that some man will come along and read me like an open book. know me inside and out. but let there be flaws and secret hiding places. Let there be dark skies but show me the sunshine. and when it rains let the drops clean away…..
-I think in time all things will answered.
You’re 19 and you think you’re life is over. No offense, but get real. I’d say that your life has hardly begun. Good luck.
You will find love again, if you find like first.
People are drawn to what their own needs are, whether it be physical attraction, helping another, or being helped by another.
Sounds selfish, but that’s how it goes.
Perhaps you are looking in all the wrong places, when your future partner may be right under your nose.
Love won’t happen when you are on a hunting crusade, it will evolve when you least expect it.
As you stated in your first line,"Why is it so hard to find someone who understands me"
Maybe that certain someone is not lost, so they don’t have to be found.
You will definitely find love. I’m going to be 22 in a month, and I know we are both too young to settle down. Couples that start dating at our age don’t tend to last because people change so much in their 20s. You’ll find love and it will be great when you do. Don’t give up, tell yourself you’re worth it, and it will come!
You sure are young to be worried about finding love again… But I understand how you feel you are more "mature" than others your age. Love is like a butterfly… if you keep trying to catch it, it will keep flying away and avoiding you, but the moment you sit down and be still, it will come to you when you do nothing at all..