What Do I Need To Do To Make My Wife Fall in love with me again?
I love her with all my heart moved back in with her mom and doesnt want me to move in with me again. she told me that i havent been showing her love which is true, and i also was an asshole to her sometimes. She doesnt even text me anymore unless its about our daughter. What can i do to get my wife back and to show her i really do love her im so depressed.
Yeah she told me that she feels like i been treating her like a friend and that she still loves me, but she doesnt want to be with me right now
Yeah she told me that she feels like i been treating her like a friend and that she still loves me, but she doesnt want to be with me right now
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dats sad… u need to explain wat ur feeling is wat u need to do, i mean honestly, if she sees that this whole issue has become a real stress on u, shell know that you still care about what she thinks. she just needs to realize that you truly still do love her. sit her down one day when ur all alone and explan to her how you feel and that the situation has you upset, im sure if she loves you back shell get the message your trying to tell her. how else can you prove someone that you love her
EDIT:btw, dont listen to dem other people, they just tryin 2 put u down by sayin u selfish, but ur not bein selfish. U sed u were an asshole to her SOMETIMES, but when are people not?? dont feel bad, i know uve been w her 4 a while now, cuz i member u talkin bout how much u love her WAYYY bacck, im sure ur nice+sweet
start at the begining, go back to your first dates and do the things you used to do.
good luck xxx
Do what you did before to make her fall in love with you. Do a romantic gesture.
You need to start treating her more like a lover than a friend or sibling (which is often times what happens in a relationship). Try to think of new things, or things you used to do in your area that are special (ex. picnic at a beach…even when its still cold!). Make a list of all of the things you love about her or how you feel about her. It might take some effort, but if she’s worth it…it’s worth the time!
Watch the movie "fireproof" it might help
Tell Her Exactly What You Said Here……You Know You Were Doing Her Wrong…..Tell Her that And How You Plan To Fix Things.
Do the things that you used to do back when you were still trying to get her. She will find it cute.
Or alternatively.
Get really rich.
I’d do the first one.
Maybe really show her that you do love her. You were probably taking advantage of her and not giving her the love and respect she deserves. Write her a meaningful letter and take her flowers or something. Hopefully she’ll take you back!
Sit down and talk to her and tell her how you truly are feeling without getting angry. Tell her you would do anything to make your marriage work. You should understand though, that if she wants nothing to do with you, move on and find someone else, theyres plenty of women out theyre. Sorry this is happening to you though! That really does suck, especially since you have a daughter together. You should deffinately explain to her though about whats going on, make sure she knows what is happening, and that if you two do split, it wasn’t her fault.
I would go slowly & be just civil, Call her sweetheart & time marches on. fjw75
You can tell her stuff like you said in the question ^^
And what every one else said.
First you need to talk to her. Really talk to her and find out when the major turn took place or what caused it! You both have done somethings to destroy what you had. After you find that out then you can begin to work on each and all problems. She probably still has feelings for you, but, maybe not. You are going to have to talk first of all!!!!
Wow look at your question, what do you need to do to MAKE your wife fall back in love with you. First you should have been the husband that she needed from the start. There is no way that you can go from being a jerk and not showing her you love her to a wonderful husband over night. You need to take some time to get yourself together and start by being a wonderful father. this question sounds so selfish, she’s the one that was hurt enough to leave and you only care about yourself hurting at this moment. I think you need to do what makes her happy even if it makes you unhappy.
First step… Change
Second Step… Say sorry, say that you was wrong, but you can change!
Third Step… Be romantic! Make something big to her! Something unbelievable!!
TRUST ME!!!
Do you love her really? Or is it just the familiarity and convenience you miss? I f you really love her then you have to be the man she needs you to be. But don’t lose your self respect. She WILL exploit it because thats what women do. And that will kill you.
Nothing you have lost her, because of your selfish, unloving attitude. Become a Buddist Monk.
act like you did when you first met her
You can always start doing the things you are suppose to do but will you keep on doing it if she took you back. As it appears you have been a real jerk throughout your marriage and then not showing her alot of love and attention too. What were you like before you got married. If you were this good guy then, you can be that good guy now, find out first why you changed, resolve that issue first then work on getting your wife back, seek counseling if need be to get to the bottom of your problem cause it seems you do have one. If you want her back ,she is going to have to see that you are making efforts to get her back like seeking help and you both will probably end up needing to go together. I feel that she needs to hang in there and help you find out what got lost in your marriage because leaving will only make it easier to stay away. "OUT OF SIGHT OUT OF MIND", marriage is for better or for worse and she is suppose to be a help mate to you and so therefore she should be helping you find the way to rekindle what you two once had instead of taking your daughter and leaving you.
You have to go through the process of changing for the better in order for her to realize how serious you are. It is easy saying i have changed but is a triumph knowing and seeing how one is taking the initial steps to change for the better.
The first thing you are going to do is try to build up things with her as if beginning a relationship. Although it hurts you she is not communicating that much. It does not mean you should stop…this is where the change begins. Begin making time for her in the sense of calling her some times throughout the week and just sending her a close message whereas response is not required as much. If you send a message which is with open questions and she does not respond, it will only crush your self esteem and will hurt you.
You are going to have to approach her slow and when you see she is starting to warm up to your responses still whilst she is at her mum’s house…try to initate treating her out to dinner, cinema etc. But do not pressure her..let her see how you are trying to change. Try being polite, positive, charming and funny. Even though things may be tense or she may not be too welcoming. Try to be that positive being…hopefully with time things will change around and she will start to say she wants to work things out by moving back in with you.
Best wishes.
Start date night. Be the man deep down that you know is hiding down there some where.
Send flowers or bring them on the dates. Send love letters. (on paper and pen not texts)
well,take my advise seriously ok?SERENADE her.arrange a person who can play guitar & sing a song of serenades.this could melt her heart & fall in love with you again.. or you can also do some small surprises like sending her sweet notes everyday if that is possible for you..i read one situation like that the woman recieves 365 letters in 1year.how romantic.thats the wonder of love……
If you really truly love her, you will know how to treat her. You can do as much nice things you want, but if you have no feeling behind it, they can be empty actions. Just follow your heart. If you love her, there are really no boundaries to what you will do to make sure you get her back… it takes time though, becuase love and truest must be gained and are not instant things. Good luck, and just don’t give up… then you might never have another chance!