How can i get back with my ex-boyfriend?

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1. Billy says:

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   Hey there,
   If you decide you want to get back with your ex, you need to be ready to face not only what has gone wrong with the relationship, but also your part in the break down of the relationship. If you made mistakes then don’t beat yourself up for that. All of us make them, it’s what you do after the mistake that’s consequential.

   7 Advices To Get Back With Ex

   1. So sit down on your own yourself too much with what you see as your ex’s mistakes, leave that for the future. Only concern yourself right now with what you can effect.

   2. Whatever mistakes you find in your past behavior, can they be forgiven? Don’t be too eager to get down on yourself and believe that your mistakes are basically unpardonable . You would be astonished at the situations that couples find themselves in and that they later recover from. So don’t think that your mistakes are beyond forgiveness. There is always hope!

   3. Try and pin point what was happening in your life at the time that led you to make the mistakes, specifically if it was completely out of character for you. Remember what I said about facing hard truths, if you want to get back with an ex, then you need to do this.

   4. You might learn later that you were under certain stresses and strains. Perhaps you were under threat at your job? Or you weren’t physically feeling yourself? Or perhaps there were other family matters . Whatever you find when you look back at what happened, you will eventually need to sit down with your ex and explain in detail exactly what you have found.

   5. If your mistakes arose from you just being thoughtless or selfish, then this is something about you and your character that can quite easily be fixed. It will take ongoing monitoring but if you are sincerely committed to getting back with your ex, then it is going to be rewarding.

   6. When you have come to the point where you have begun to gain perspective about your mistakes, then call your ex and arrange to meet. It is usually better to arrange a face to face meeting somewhere public and neutral since then there is less chance of either of you becoming emotional.

   7. So, make sure that you concentrated on what you want to say. Apologize and ask for forgiveness and then listen with great attention to what your ex has to say.

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   Take care!
2. Irene D says:

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   the fact that he removed you from facebook tells you that he probably isn’t interested in you anymore. don’t stalk him, give it a rest, if you wanna get back to him, you must look it realistic. invite your friends and him for a movie night or something like that. be there as a friend. hopefully he will gets feelings for you again!
   (sorry for the bad grammar)
3. Sandra L says:

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   Hey

   Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.

   if you desire to get your ex back try following these steps:

   1.one of the most important things is to get your head straight. You need to remove these negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.

   Don’t let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can’t achieve a goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.

   2.Don’t pester your ex boyfriend. Men just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously sms him, email him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. It’s very important give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.

   3.Become an object of desire. If you can, get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When you look good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, others will easily see it. You will become an object of desire to men, including your ex.

   These tips were helpful for me to get my ex boyfriend back. Anyhow, if you really want to get him back I will recommend to get good guide on how to get your ex back. There are many guides out there but most of them are crap (I tried too many of them…).

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   I hope that these tips will be helpful for you.
   Good luck!
4. Miss Pink says:

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   First of all, why in the hell do you want to get back together with this fool? He is not only rude, he is very disrespectful and you don’t need to put up with his crap! You need to let him go and move on with your life, because what’s the point on you wasting your time with him if he’s not willing to put in the effort into the relationship? Most importantly, you need to maintain your self-worth and your self-respect, because when you’re doing that, you mean business to anyone that you meet-especially men. Besides, you’re too good for him anyway, and you will find someone who’s better than him. Good luck and you deserve better.