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Tuesday, September 1st, 2009 at
Came home from overseas, miss the adrenaline rush, marriage falling apart;depressed need some excitement…should I return for a third tour overseas, write a book, save my marriage or find some adventure-minded folks like myself, grab our cameras and travel the world on the cheap?
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Couldn’t you save your marriage by taking your wife with you on your journey around the world?
Then you can right your book as you go and you can both take pictures of each new thing you do together?
Just an idea!
risk level?
last option sounds great.
work on that marriage man
Try saving your marriage… I mean, if you can do that it could potentially get a lot more exciting!
God can! Jesus too!
do you want to save your marriage? if it’s worth it to you, try. marriage counseling can help a lot. other than that….why not do all of it? life’s too short to not try everything you want.
it sounds as if you really dont care too much about your marriage if you’re considering traveling with adventurous people like you. Its one thing to be adventurous, its anoter to have a failing marriage because of your own actions
If you are childless, go for the adventure.
You should go with what you feel like doing the most in you heart.
Try saving your marriage and travelling the world at the same time… that could very well be your remedy!
This will sound boring but the first thing is to find a good counselor to talk to to help you ‘come down’ from the stress and adrenaline rush you had to deal with overseas. Otherwise, you may continually be looking for that thrill rather than dealing with real life.
So, basically, you’re saying you need total strangers to make your major life changing decisions for you??
Grow the f**k up and take some responsibility for your life. Fix what can be fixed, let go of what can’t, and live.
Get some counseling and take a vacation with your wife!
to tall to them
to help them with they need
I think that you should really go with saving your marriage. i mean you’ll lose a lot more if you don’t try that. So, go with the third option.
You just threw your marriage in the mix with everything else…..stay married or write a book ?!? Wow, does she really mean that much to you ? If your marriage is in the same place as a book then I would say do her a favor and write the book or take the trip. You obviously dont care enough to make the failing marriage work.
Come all ye who are weary and bear heavy burden and Jesus will give u peace.
My peace I give you not as the world giveth says the Lord.
What you are simply doing is running away from reality.
Sorry to hear about your marriage! Are you military or a military contractor that was overseas? I would definately find something to keep you busy! Photography is a wonderful way to express yourself. If you can’t save your marriage, then by all means, travel…get away and start anew! Need to talk email from my 360 page!
RELAX MAN….Since the Sixty’s those symptoms have gotten to alot of guys. I’m a Viet-Nam veteran, spent twenty months there, had the same problems, I didn’t do the RIGHT thing…..it cost me four (4) years in prison. It didn’t matter, I still had the symptoms of an adrenalin junkie. SOOO…I went to the source of my problems….the V.A. I started going to some groups, following what they suggested, I started getting relief, try that.
Honestly, you are the only one who can answer this question… You need to take some time and find yourself again. What it is you want out of life and what things you really would like to do, that you haven’t done.
As far as your marriage, well it all depends on the situation. Sometimes when couples are away from each other for too long, they drift apart. If you still love her and have children. Then you should try to work it out.. Sit down and speak with her. See what both of you want and expect out of the relationship… If you decide to work it out, then more power too you.. Once this is decided, then you will know what to do with your life…
GOOD LUCK!