I had an affair over a year ago when I was out of state working for a month and a half (the affair lasted about 3 weeks), we broke up after that for a couple months, then got back together.

He has cheated on me twice (that I know of) about 3 years ago, I let it go and forgave him, however he said he never had s*x with anyone else, just kissed so what he did was way different.

We have been married for 6 years, together for 8, I am 23 and he is 27. I still love him but he is not the same, I can tell he doesn’t really love me, he won’t talk about it, what are some things I can do to help make him love me again? I want this marriage to work, we have a 5 year old daughter together.

I do not work anymore, I stay at home with our daughter. I already do all the "wife" things like make his lunch for work, have him supper ready when he gets home, keep the house clean, I rub his back when he’s going to sleep. I do alot for him and still I get nothing.

I have put up with a lot from this man and I mess up one time and he can’t seem to get over it. He has done much worse if we add up everything. So how can I get him to realize that it was a mistake, it’s over, I love him and I only want to be with him? I want him to forgive me and try to find the love he use to have for me again, how can I work on doing that? He doesn’t want to go to marriage counseling. Any suggestions? No critisisim please.
Thank you
THANK YOU for all the great advice.
I do pray every night and I will continue to.
We are intimate, so that is still there with no problems.
I never go out with friends or anything like that, and we do go out together about once a month.
THANK YOU for all the great advice.
I do pray every night and I will continue to.
We are intimate, so that is still there with no problems.
I never go out with friends or anything like that, and we do go out together about once a month.
I will up the compliments, thank you for that.
I came clean with him about it when he asked, I could of EASILY lied and gotten away with it but I didn’t want to lie anymore.

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