What is the best way to get your ex boyfriend back?
he broke up with me practically two weeks ago and i was his first real love and relationship.
i felt like he got sick of me because we usually always argued but he did regret breaking up with me 3 nights later when i was not even speaking with him.
he told me we need to fix things before we got back together and he flirted with me that whole night we hungout of us not talking for 3 days.
like the night was going great he was flirting with me and we were started drinking out on my back patio. We were having fun but i think i got real pissed off when we went and smoked weed because the way he was acting turned me off so i started cussing at him
I think i ruined my chance of like ever getting back with him…
like he really did care for me and he did love me..
we just always got frustrated when we were around eachother and i kinda stopped eating because i was depressed.
I really dont think he cares about me and i havent talked to him in 3 days because he came with his friends and my friends to a party and we didnt talk since… i think its really over after all that hard effort of 10 months of dating but to be honest i was his first real relationship and he was mine… and i did take his v-card to put in… like i want him back….. Is 2 weeks a long time for a break up… what should i do to get him back to me…?
!!!!!!please help. thanks
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Hi
Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances to win him back increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back then these 3 simple steps should help achieve your goal:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to remove these negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and especially depression keep you down. You can’t achieve a goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Bad thoughts are destructive behavior and you need to avoid them.
2.Don’t annoy your ex boyfriend. Boys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously him, [spin]text message him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your ex boyfriend back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, it’s recommended to get some new makeup. You will also want to get some new clothes and a new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start exercising and try to eat healthy foods. When you look good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. By feeling good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
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I hope you will get your ex boyfriend soon!
why the f***ck would you want to date some who uses drugs i say he not worth it
It does not sound like that your relationship was all that great. Honestly just because you took his virginity and he was your first love does not mean it was the right relationship. What you are saying is that you were arguing most of the time, the guy was using drugs you cussed him out. Why do you want to get back together with that man? You can do so much better than him. Move on and found a man who will make you happy, since this relationship did not sound like a happy one (based on what you described above). That is just my opinion.