How can i convince my bestfriend not to get back with his crazy ex girlfriend?

They dated for two years, she is very immature and lied to him about some things that he later found out about. They were about to be engaged but she would often do something really stupid that would push him to the brink and he would threaten to break up with her although he didn’t really mean it. So she told him that she didn’t think they could ever find happiness being together and that if he really loved her he wouldn’t threaten to break up after he said he wouldn’t. She refused to give him another chance and they broke up. The thing is, he has done so much for this girl, he was always there for her, gave her his extra credit card in case she ever needed something, and bought her a ,000 engagement ring but she’s never there for him. I don’t trust this girl at all, she seems so fake to me, but I think my friend still has feelings for her and would get sucked back into a relationship with her if she wanted to make things right. He seems confused, he’s been in a few relationships where he thinks the girl is the one but he always ends up getting screwed over.
Wow, great answers everybody. You brought good things to ponder from both sides of the fence. I appreciate it.

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17 Responses to “How can i convince my bestfriend not to get back with his crazy ex girlfriend?”

  • Rich G says:

    There’s nothing you can do or say.He’ll do what he feels is best for him, even if you know it’s not. I would try to tell him look I’m your best friend, if anybody knows you best it’s me, then maybe he’ll listen. But some guys might take this as trying to tell them what to do, so just try and see what happens. If not, just leave it alone and let him learn from his own mistakes. Sometimes it take making the same mistakes a bunch of times before you actually learn from them.

  • Alpine says:

    Just tell him what you would do, keep it short because your probably wasting your time, he will do what he wants regardless when it comes to relationships.

  • Guitars r Good says:

    poison…

  • tsigarulez says:

    I don’t think you should interfere, it’s their business, if you do convince him, and he will regret it later then he’ll blame you, let the man learn for himself :P

  • james m says:

    tltr;

    kill the bitch.

  • ▐▀▀♥▀▀▌ ♥Melissa♥ ▐▄▄♥▄▄▌ says:

    I agree poison!

  • SrH Controversy says:

    let him know his life is going to pass him by, and one day when he’s 50 years old he’s going to think back on all the woulda-coulda-shoulda’s if he continues down a path with her of nothing but broken trust and lies. On the other hand, he would have a wide open door of opportunities that would benafit him later on if he chose to stay away from her

  • Mokhtar says:

    IF he loves her do not try or you will lose him

  • nobody says:

    Remind him of his past experiences.

  • i'd rather be dreaming... says:

    This is what happened with one of my uncle’s. He let this crazy woman control his life and ruin his relationship with his son, he married her and tattooed her name on his arm, and then he went nuts himself, beat her up and slept with their newborn baby’s nanny, and she is trying to take all of his money (I always knew she was a gold digger). And I feel terrible for them both.

    Your friends old girlfriend sounds fake, but those are his feelings… Sometimes we feel things that we don’t really understand… But if he always thinks the girl he’s with is "the one" then I think he just really wants to find the right girl for him and he’ll do anything for that. He follows his heart, but that’s not a good thing, because if you do you’ll be vulnerable and then someone will hurt you.

  • Emely says:

    remind him of all the pain and drama she put him throught and that even though he might still like her he shouldnt settle for someone who cannot make him happy . he should keep tryin to look for the right gurl becuase shes still out there life is too short to waste it with a person who is not there for him and wont bring him any happiness

  • Denisa V says:

    just tell him and if he wont listen get some1 to back you up and point things out

  • Terry says:

    Danny, you’re a good friend, you can advise him, but to convince him, hell, it’d be easier to piss up a rope.

  • michelle says:

    Really I hate to say this, but there is nothing that you can really do. If he want to go back to her crazy immature a** then let him do it. That is there business and that is something for him to worry about not you. If he want to learn the hard way then let him do. Let him learn from his mistakes. Hopefully he’ll wake up one they and realize how much of a b**** she really is. He’ll get tired of her BS one day, and hopefully he’ll find mrs. right.

  • tonymft says:

    It’s highly unlikely to impossible. Support your friend and don’t take up too much time on this crap, your time is more valuable than that.

  • That Sweet Girl says:

    Poor guy, all he’s met are bitches. He probably doesn’t know what it’s like to have a normal girlfriend. :[ He may only be going for hot chicks and thus finding only bad girls. Or maybe he’s just the knight in shining armor type guy which can be used very easily.

    Anyway, you should tell him. He probably won’t believe you but you need to keep prying.

  • marmar says:

    Y dont u try to introduce him to other girls. Hell take him to a good strip club

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