I need my wife to love me again like she used to.?
I have been with my wife for over 20 years. We always got along well and had fun together but over the years we have drifted apart. she does not have any interest in me any more and I just seem to be a pest when I try to love her. I love more than anything in the world and would do anything to gain her love back. I think the more I try to love her the more she pushes me away. I have tried everything from flowers to letters. I do lots of work around the house for us.I tell her I love her . I clean her car for her etc. I just want her love back. She used to be the best women in the world to me in every way but not any more. What to do.
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Sad to hear that your marriage has become so unfulfilling. Marriage takes constant care and nurturing from two people. It is hard work to stay in love! It doesn’t sound like she is willing or cares much to do anything about the state of your relationship. It is sad, but if she isn’t willing to try then you are just throwing water down a dry well. If she will agree to see a counselor then run don’t walk. If she won’t then go alone, they may give you some techniques for dealing with this.
Try thinking back to the times in your relationship when your love was just starting to bloom, you know the exciting times. Was there anything back then that you did that made her cheer up/made her love you more? What it sounds like you have lost in your relationship is the spark, but all is not lost. If she is willing you both need to work to rekindle that spark, but in a way starting from the beginning…slow steps…little things to show you care, and telling them how you feel but not being too outright with it. I hope this helps, and the very best of luck to you!
Talk with your wife and tell her how you feel. Get some answers, you deserve them your her husband. If that doesn’t work maybe she just needs some space. Give her some room to breath.