How can I ever say I love you again after what she did?
I dated this girl for a little over a year and I had really strong feelings for her. I thought I was in love with her so I told her. For the next couple of months she told me she loved me too. Then one day out of the blue she says to me that she doesn’t have feelings for me beyond anything platonic. We never fought or argued and I was completely blind sided. I felt used and disrespected. It has been over two years and I cannot bring myself to trust another woman and find myself always looking for the reason not to go after them. How can I stop this? Is this a normal reaction? I just can’t ever see myself saying those three words to a woman first ever again and for that I am deeply saddened.
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Frank, I think you always knew you were more into her than she was to you? It happens. See it this way mate. It’s her lose that she could not be true to herself or you. She lived a lie and it sucks to be her. She did you a favor. Now you are free to find a woman that will be equally in love with you. Starting over allows you to have some control. You owe it to yourself. good luck buddy.
That’s really sad, but you must remember that not all women are like that. You will find someone who will truly love you, and soon enough you will know it and you will be able to tell her you love her too.
But don’t wait too long. Don’t let one sour relationship ruin them all. Don’t sulk about that girl; think about the times to come where you will find the right girl, one who will love you and you will love.
Forget what she did to you and give women a second chance.
Stop acting like a *****. You’re a man you’re not supposed to have feelings. How are you gonna get a girl if you act like one?
Problem is you dude. I’m the same way or was. Fix your insecurities n forget bout this b****.
you’re just really hurt. that’s what my ex experienced kinda, the girl who he said i love you to didnt do him justice, and when we were dating its like he gave up on girls, and when i said im falling for him, he dont believe it and he told me very hurtful things i can never forget. which really hurts me too. i was really sad and upset one time and told him that it was his ex who ruined it for the next relationships he will have. but my point is… give other girls a second chance. its like math, there’s trial and error. and just have the patience for the right one to come. and have fun with your life, we only got one life you know. so dont waste it. and that girl…im guessing she just had an infatuation and confused it with love. so she messed up. hope this helped.
plenty of fish in the sea, and no two are exactly alike. dont give up, she is who she is, other women are not necessarily anything like that.