Please read! Will an ex-girlfriend ever be friends with you again, does she miss her ex if all was good once?

Me and this girl broke up after 3 1/2 months. (I 29 she 25) Initially she told me that she lost the spark. She wanted to stay friends badly!. I kept asking her i wanted her back sweetly. We fought over the next 3 weeks about getting back. She said things like you cant force it, give it time, etc.. Then she started to call me a crazy person cause i persisted and i know i did. Last night i get a text from her telling me the reasons for a break up. My charm got old. She was no longer attracted to me cause she is outta my league, she felt i was buying her love and my asskising got sickening and now she says she will never be friends and wants nothing to do with me. I think i pushed her to far. Will she ever talk to me again. Has anyone ever had someone talk to them again after something like this. I really just wanted to stay friends. Saw her recently and she said hello. We tried to talk but she said she has nothing to say? The happened to her? She said she will regret the breakup. Why
I saw her this past weekend and we tried to talk, but she said she had nothing to say to me. We hang out at similar places and she talks to my friends. I treated her so well. She always told me how lucky she was to be "stuck" with me and i am the best. Told me she wanted to marry me etc.. have kids and all. All of a sudden you lose feelings. Makes no sense. She did just get out of a 2 1/2 yr verbally abusive relationship which ended in a restraining order, which I come to find out she has started to text him again, nothing more and the texting started while we were together, of course she denied, but I have proof. I guess i was a rebound or what. Do you guys think she just realized she didnt want to be in a relationship cause she was not ready?? Or was she just confused, she is a Gemini and I am a Pisces? Any advice on how I should deal with this? Will she consider me as a friend since our fallout? That is all i really want and i told her so.

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9 Responses to “Please read! Will an ex-girlfriend ever be friends with you again, does she miss her ex if all was good once?”

  • Jane G says:

    You can choose your friends as the saying goes,so choose again,she sounds like a biatch.
    You sound like a very sensitive fish,don’t worry about her crap
    people like her are not true friends.

  • nick birch says:

    Get a grip - you are the man and she is the woman so start acting like it - ie start acting very badly/rudely towards her.

    Tell her that you do not want to ever see her again and that if you see her at any of your hang outs you will get very angry - ie imply physically violent.

    No wonder she dumped you - you poof

  • heather n says:

    she needs her time and maybe someones telling her stuff about you that she doesn’t like to hear. some people do lose the spark cause maybe one single reason. but to tell you the truth it happens to alot of people not to me lol but you know like others. i would give it time. look up smile forgive love and be you and if she can’t accept you the way you are then don’t go back with her cause there just soo many other girls that would accept you the way you are.

  • Lindsey Faith says:

    Why do you want her as a friend when she obviously doesn’t really want that from you? She’s right, you can’t force it. She just doesn’t like you and that doesn’t make her any less of a person and it doesn’t make you any less of a person. You’ll be much happier when you stop trying to fit square pegs in round holes and just get over her because you’ll be available to find that person who IS right for you. Keep your chin up and be on the lookout. Best wishes!

  • SweetGirl says:

    First thing which came to my mind wen i first read ur question was "Yes, she will be friends with you again" and i believe it. Sometimes, ppl tend to take certain ppl for granted or you make dem take you fr granted…once u be on ur own and appear to be less bothered, that will make them think, and miss ur company…she will be back…provided u be on ur own and pretend that it does not bother u much…

  • jorge e says:

    BE FIRM WITH HER. iF YOU DID NOT DO ANYTHING WRONG THEN YOU JUST NEED TO LEAVE HER ALONE AND IF SHE INSISTS ON COMING BACK TO YOU THEN YOU THINK ABOUT HOW YOU WANT THE RELATIONSHIP TO BE. LAY DOWN THE LAW,, MAKE IT FAIR,, NOT TAKING REVENGE BUT FAIR,, TO YOU AND TO HER. LET TIME PASS AND SHE WILL MATURE AND FIGURE WHAT SHE WANTS. DON’T WAIT FOR HER JUST LIVE YOUR LIFE AND IF IT IS MEANT TO BE THEN SO LET IT BE.

  • Tal says:

    It sounds like to me she was scared. Not of you but of what she might miss out on if you 2 got married. So she ran just to find her self in a worse relaship with some one else. Now she is wishing that she had not made the mistake of leaving you. But is to scared of telling you.. With Love God Bless..

  • al says:

    OK first not all ex’s will become friends and when they do its weird because theirs hope that the relationship will go back to they way it was just give her all the space she needs or she’ll be the biggest you-know-what in the world i know i was my ex gave me space then said the wrong thing at the worst possible time so think before you speak if your still into her it will work out(karma) but see someone who will understand the situation and understands what your going through and it doesn’t hurt to shake things up, and she regretted it b/c you where probably the best thing to happen to her

  • Nano N says:

    OMG man i should he-B!tch-man-slap you..u acted like a total wussy dont un know being a sweet sensative guy will have all the ladies saying ur great but once it comes down to it u cant keep em cuz u act like a wuss bag ( im not trying to insult u but u messed up EVERWHERE) and well dont u notice something here? u said her ex was verbaly abusive and she’s texting him now? has this nice guy attitude worked for you so far? man, im not saying be a total d1ck but stop putting them on a pedestual cuz it makes u look weak and women dont want to be put up there…look u need the help of David D from doubleyourdating.com trust me man i went through this same thing but im 20 and have finally figured some stuff out and my success is crazy man u wont believe it…PEACE

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