How to fall in love with my husband again?
I will be married for 15 years on 4/10 and my husband had an affair in Nov. 2007 we also have 2 kids. We are in counseling and are trying to work things out, but I just don’t feel it with him anymore and I don’t think he feels it for me. We want to be in love with each other are trying but it just feels like it’s not happening. We grew apart over the last year and this is why the attention from another female was so inviting for him. I had issues with him still talking to this person until I made him move out in Feb. then he realized he wanted me and his marriage. He says he hasn’t talked to her or seen her but I find it hard to believe him as he told me this before and he was talking to her. They were getting close and she contacted him alot so I find it hard that she too has stopped since they never told each other that it was over. We get along great and don’t fight so that is what makes it hard to decide if I should move on, but it’s lonely living with him. Any advice.


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That is tough. How do you ever really know? You have to ask yourself something; Does it matter? This one affair… will it eat at you for years to come?
In my previous marriage my ex-wife cheated with a friend of mine. I found out and we ended up divorcing. Six months later we remarried. We both tried to make it work. My main motivation was raising my kids. I don’t know what her reason was. We seperated six years later… she saw someone else during that time. I finally left her last year after 19.5 years. After she cheated the first time, I never felt the same towards her. I kept telling myself it was only sex… but in reality it was the ultimate betrayal of my marriage. She shared her body with another man. After she cheated we had sex, but never made love.
If it were me, I would get a divorce. I wasted a lot of years on my ex-wife. Life is too short to suffer with someone that will betray you so easily. Divorce him and get everything you got coming to you. Find you a mad that deserves your love and be happy.
Good luck with that!!!
Give him the Love and Attention ;-} that he so sorely misses… he wouldn’t go elsewhere if he was getting it at home.